Chase money and women will Clem is

[captain55]

You will lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing money. I have found this saying in my young life so far to be true.

A few months ago when business was great and I was finally approaching what I consider being “comfortable” in La.... I felt like the man ....and was pulling women left and right. What’s crazy is I was having women out of my league chasing me. I couldn’t believe how everything was just falling into place. It was unbelievable.

Unfortunately the past month business is slow...I’m trying not to let it get to me but I’m just not in the same mood....I don’t have the same ****ynsss I used to have when I was balling.

I had a 9 interested in me, and I haven’t contacted her in weeks because I’m depressed... I don’t want to go out.

Obviously it’s not the money itself that attracted her and these women it was the mindset. I try to tell myself this...I know this.... but how can I have the same inner confidence when I am genuinely down I’m not making the money that I want to?

 

[IKO69]

Obviously. It's what some people hve been trying to get over for the longest time - women shouldn't be the focus if your life in shambles. If your life is in shambles it's why you aren't getting women. Fix everything else and the women have no choice but to come. The problem is a lot of guys put the cart before the horse and wonder why they get nowhere. If women have all the pick as it has been established that means you have competition - aim to be better than the competition.

 

[captain55]

Obviously. It's what some people hve been trying to get over for the longest time - women shouldn't be the focus if your life in shambles. If your life is in shambles it's why you aren't getting women. Fix everything else and the women have no choice but to come. The problem is a lot of guys put the cart before the horse and wonder why they get nowhere. If women have all the pick as it has been established that means you have competition - aim to be better than the competition.

Not sure what I am supposed to get out of this. I have a 9 that was pursuing me and interested in me, who I ghosted because the high I was on went away (business took a big hit). I went from feeling like I deserved her and was entitled to her, because I was a young successful guy going places...to feeling like a shadow of my former self overnight. I’m trying to “get back” the old me...the ****y arrogant guy that attracted her in the first place but it’s just not happening. It can’t without the money. No matter how good looking or well built or how big your **** is, you will never have the same inner swag that you have when your financially successful

 

[Murk]

Because money is too connected to your happiness right now, which is understandable. 1 month shouldn't be the difference between balling and depression, you're still making your mark, live within your means, be humble.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You will lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing money. I have found this saying in my young life so far to be true.

A few months ago when business was great and I was finally approaching what I consider being “comfortable” in La.... I felt like the man ....and was pulling women left and right. What’s crazy is I was having women out of my league chasing me. I couldn’t believe how everything was just falling into place. It was unbelievable.

Unfortunately the past month business is slow...I’m trying not to let it get to me but I’m just not in the same mood....I don’t have the same ****ynsss I used to have when I was balling.

I had a 9 interested in me, and I haven’t contacted her in weeks because I’m depressed... I don’t want to go out.

Obviously it’s not the money itself that attracted her and these women it was the mindset. I try to tell myself this...I know this.... but how can I have the same inner confidence when I am genuinely down I’m not making the money that I want to?

How's your body game?
Rebuild your mindset, it shouldn't be all about money .

 

[bigdave17]

lol what a bunch of fukking bullsh*t

I've been chasing money like a madman since I was 23. I was making 150K at the age of 24 in a cheap area (for you Los Angeles and New York homos, think 400K) and got myself set up to retire by 45-50 if I want to. I've made 150K - 180K now since I was 24 (I'm 29). I have the big house, fancy car, fancy clothes, great lifestyle, party and vacation like a rockstar, etc...

I've never had anything even close to meaningful dating experience

 

[IKO69]

lol what a bunch of fukking bullsh*t

I've been chasing money like a madman since I was 23. I was making 150K at the age of 24 in a cheap area (for you Los Angeles and New York homos, think 400K) and got myself set up to retire by 45-50 if I want to. I've made 150K - 180K now since I was 24 (I'm 29). I have the big house, fancy car, fancy clothes, great lifestyle, party and vacation like a rockstar, etc...

I've never had anything even close to meaningful dating experience

Because you are probably a ****ing liar when it comes to your possessions.

 

[IKO69]

Not sure what I am supposed to get out of this. I have a 9 that was pursuing me and interested in me, who I ghosted because the high I was on went away (business took a big hit). I went from feeling like I deserved her and was entitled to her, because I was a young successful guy going places...to feeling like a shadow of my former self overnight. I’m trying to “get back” the old me...the ****y arrogant guy that attracted her in the first place but it’s just not happening. It can’t without the money. No matter how good looking or well built or how big your **** is, you will never have the same inner swag that you have when your financially successful

So get back on the grind. You said you had a business and it was doing quite well at one point. You must obviously have some intellect so it shouldn't be too difficult to get back on your feet. I would do whatever it takes not to tie my self esteem to money though....your self worth shouldn't go out the window of a temporary setback in business affairs. You are primed to get taken advantage of that's what you are doing.

 

[bigdave17]

Because you are probably a ****ing liar when it comes to your possessions.

paystub from last month. 91K in 6 months = about 182K pace plus I'll get a 7G bonus for selling 300 cars for the year (I average about 25 cars a month with huge profit per deal)

 

[R.U.G.]

lol what a bunch of fukking bullsh*t

I've been chasing money like a madman since I was 23. I was making 150K at the age of 24 in a cheap area (for you Los Angeles and New York homos, think 400K) and got myself set up to retire by 45-50 if I want to. I've made 150K - 180K now since I was 24 (I'm 29). I have the big house, fancy car, fancy clothes, great lifestyle, party and vacation like a rockstar, etc...

I've never had anything even close to meaningful dating experience

Problem is your mindset and your are a bit materialistic. Your requirements for a woman are crazy. I know men who are millionaires who have all the money, status and power. Couldn't get a woman to save their life.

It's all how you are viewed in yourself as well to others. If you think you are not good enough, why should they?

I know this one bro, started from South Bronx, NY. A really tough area. Decent shape, decent looks, multi-millionaire by 26. He made a few apps years back and sold them to some big VC backed companies. Net worth easily 20 million +. Not showy, but lives well. Has a pad in the city as well as a county house. Nice clothes, a few cars (he fixes them up as a hobby and brings them back to life. Amazing work). He's essentially retired. Has money coming in from stocks, bonds, other businesses he's started and real estate. Heck, he even owns royalty rights and commissions in music. One thing that holds him back. He thinks he's not good enough for women on his own level because he has a medical disorder. You wouldn't know it if you met him, but he has severe IBD/chrons, and it has destroyed his social life. Money comes in, but he's stuck in neutral socially. He calls his main residence a prison palace because he stuck there so long many days on end when a flare up happens. He had relationships, but they've all bailed on him he's stated. He's never leaned on anyone, and there were a few times he was in the hospital because the pain is so bad. Some how, he drove himself each time. One time he collapsed right outside the ER.

Point being, every person's situation is different. Bigdave, you are holding yourself back with your standards. You live in Chicagoland if I recall correctly. No reason why you shouldn't be tapping those butts left and right. YOU are holding yourself back. Money, status and power does work, but if you are like the guy above or even someone like Pres. Kennedy; these days, you're fvcked socially. There's only so much on needs until it just no longer matters.

 

[R.U.G.]

paystub from last month. 91K in 6 months = about 182K pace plus I'll get a 7G bonus for selling 300 cars for the year (I average about 25 cars a month with huge profit per deal)

I would remove this if I was you. And stop stroking your e-penis. No one here cares. There are people here who make that in a month. You do not see them posting financial #'s.

 

[bigdave17]

Problem is your mindset and your are a bit materialistic. Your requirements for a woman are crazy. I know men who are millionaires who have all the money, status and power. Couldn't get a woman to save their life.

It's all how you are viewed in yourself as well to others. If you think you are not good enough, why should they?

I know this one bro, started from South Bronx, NY. A really tough area. Decent shape, decent looks, multi-millionaire by 26. He made a few apps years back and sold them to some big VC backed companies. Net worth easily 20 million +. Not showy, but lives well. Has a pad in the city as well as a county house. Nice clothes, a few cars (he fixes them up as a hobby and brings them back to life. Amazing work). He's essentially retired. Has money coming in from stocks, bonds, other businesses he's started and real estate. Heck, he even owns royalty rights and commissions in music. One thing that holds him back. He thinks he's not good enough for women on his own level because he has a medical disorder. You wouldn't know it if you met him, but he has severe IBD/chrons, and it has destroyed his social life. Money comes in, but he's stuck in neutral socially. He calls his main residence a prison palace because he stuck there so long many days on end when a flare up happens. He had relationships, but they've all bailed on him he's stated. He's never leaned on anyone, and there were a few times he was in the hospital because the pain is so bad. Some how, he drove himself each time. One time he collapsed right outside the ER.

Point being, every person's situation is different. Bigdave, you are holding yourself back with your standards. You live in Chicagoland if I recall correctly. No reason why you shouldn't be tapping those butts left and right. YOU are holding yourself back. Money, status and power does work, but if you are like the guy above or even someone like Pres. Kennedy; these days, you're fvcked socially. There's only so much on needs until it just no longer matters.

The guy in your example has a severe illness. I'm healthy as a fukking bull. There is nothing wrong with me

Why are my requirements for a woman crazy? I just want the female version of me

I have more specific standards than super high standards. Most people prefer light skin white women over anybody else...I strongly prefer dark mediterranean/Spanish features over anything else. That's a question of specific standards, not high standards

 

[bigdave17]

he said I was lying, I had to prove a point

no personal info in that pic

 

[R.U.G.]

The guy in your example has a severe illness. I'm healthy as a fukking bull. There is nothing wrong with me

Why are my requirements for a woman crazy? I just want the female version of me

I have more specific standards than super high standards. Most people prefer light skin white women over anybody else...I strongly prefer dark mediterranean/Spanish features over anything else. That's a question of specific standards, not high standards

Even bulls get sick out of no where. You just do not want a dark mediterranean/Spanish woman, you want a woman who looks like Kim Kardashian or Bebe Rexha. Both, attractive women, but not normal. Plus, I do not thing both are real. We all know Kardashian is fake, perhaps Rexha is too.

 

[IKO69]

paystub from last month. 91K in 6 months = about 182K pace plus I'll get a 7G bonus for selling 300 cars for the year (I average about 25 cars a month with huge profit per deal) View attachment 1528

Dave, do you think I was born yesterday? You could've lifted that from anywhere on the web -Save your "proof". If in any event I am wrong (which I highly doubt) then it makes the situation a whole lot worse and it means something has gone horribly wrong. There are many shameless women that **** nasty old ugly fat guys because they have money....you come in and say you are better looking than like 90% of guys and have all this money....but yet struggle - something obviously does not add up.

 

[bigdave17]

Even bulls get sick out of no where. You just do not want a dark mediterranean/Spanish woman, you want a woman who looks like Kim Kardashian or Bebe Rexha. Both, attractive women, but not normal. Plus, I do not thing both are real. We all know Kardashian is fake, perhaps Rexha is too.

nah, I had a really cute Spanish customer at work last year. 26 years old, maybe 5'4, cute face, nice body (decent legs, nice ass, decent boobs)

...of course she's a single fukking mom. I would have been 100% in if she didn't have kids. We got along so great, everything in common

So frustrating

 

[CBear]

Because money is too connected to your happiness right now, which is understandable. 1 month shouldn't be the difference between balling and depression, you're still making your mark, live within your means, be humble.

True. Many people attribute their c0ckiness or happiness to their looks/money/possession/women. Once they have one attribute or every one that they wanted, they are happy or confident for the time being and they go on a high in life. Of course, sometimes, people are still not happy and think of something else they want. The obvious problem is that those things can be lost and probably will be so it's probably not wise to base your c0ckiness based on a certain attribute because just like you can achieve a high in life, you can hit a very bad low.

Yes, work on every aspect of your life! but I think it's best to naturally work on a mindset you'd have as if you'd be say rich or huge without actually being those things. Basically just not being effected by certain traits you have as a person. That way one doesn't become a mess if problems occur with a certain attribute. I believe that this can build a good foundation for one as a man.

 

[bigdave17]

Dave, do you think I was born yesterday? You could've lifted that from anywhere on the web -Save your "proof". If in any event I am wrong (which I highly doubt) then it makes the situation a whole lot worse and it means something has gone horribly wrong. There are many shameless women that **** nasty old ugly fat guys because they have money....you come in and say you are better looking than like 90% of guys and have all this money....but yet struggle - something obviously does not add up.

I struggle to find the woman I deserve. I have tons of women interested in me who are mediocre either in looks, personality or the overall package

And yes I'm very good looking in real life. I wish you guys met me in real life. I'm so much better looking in real life than these shtty pics

 

[captain55]

How's your body game?
Rebuild your mindset, it shouldn't be all about money .

I am a National level bodybuilder. I sit at around 220 8%bf these days. I was never successful financially until recently but would get women with my looks. As a guy who has been on both ends of the spectrum And gone out with a lot of beautiful women..I can honestly say that being wealthy>being jacked. I’ve never been wealthy but I’ve had my taste of money in short bursts and the confidence it gives you..not the money itself but the tools it takes to be successful will take your game to a new level.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I am a National level bodybuilder. I sit at around 220 8%bf these days. I was never successful financially until recently but would get women with my looks. As a guy who has been on both ends of the spectrum And gone out with a lot of beautiful women..I can honestly say that being wealthy>being jacked. I’ve never been wealthy but I’ve had my taste of money in short bursts and the confidence it gives you..not the money itself but the tools it takes to be successful will take your game to a new level.

Awesome . One bad month on the money shouldn't depress. It can come and go. So a man should base his esteem off of something else.