"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What exactly is Charm and how do you Charm others? ( any people)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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charm is about being happy in its simplest form
projecting this happiness on to anyone really, would create a natural aura of charm surrounding you.

the source of your individual charm is in geniunely existing.

if you want to project charm, then be charming.

it only matters what you think charm is really in the end, you'll attract a girl who is naturally attracted to your natural charm, and then you will mack it no matter what you do
 
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He or she has a fine personality, meaning that he or she makes a pleasing self-presentation. *Of nice character, *Kind, *Has Appeal, *Helpful, *Attractiveness that interests, and pleases.
 
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From my experience, being charming is the ability to make someone you have just met feel as if they've known and trusted you all their life.

Charm itself is an abstract trait that causes people to think more of you and do more for you than logic would dictate.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BCOMusic said:
charm is about being happy in its simplest form
projecting this happiness on to anyone really, would create a natural aura of charm surrounding you.
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That's it - the secret to it all.

It's funny how literally so many people take the words on this website (I sure did when I was completely lost). EVERYTHING points to just finding inner happiness. Once you've found that and found the love for yourself and your life, everyone around you will feel it - and this site, the one big metahpor will suddenly make sense and take new meaning.

Walk down the street and look at every person you see. How many of those people are smiling like they don't have a care in the world? I see maybe one or two happy people per day.

Moods are as contagous as the common cold - If you are swimming in happiness, you'll drown the whole world in your charm.
 
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