illmatic1005
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What exactly is Charm and how do you Charm others? ( any people)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Someone Much cooler
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flirt and make the girls comfortable and attrated to you thru your mannerisms.
charm is about being happy in its simplest form
projecting this happiness on to anyone really, would create a natural aura of charm surrounding you.
the source of your individual charm is in geniunely existing.
if you want to project charm, then be charming.
it only matters what you think charm is really in the end, you'll attract a girl who is naturally attracted to your natural charm, and then you will mack it no matter what you do
projecting this happiness on to anyone really, would create a natural aura of charm surrounding you.
the source of your individual charm is in geniunely existing.
if you want to project charm, then be charming.
it only matters what you think charm is really in the end, you'll attract a girl who is naturally attracted to your natural charm, and then you will mack it no matter what you do
TonyWongButOhSoRite
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He or she has a fine personality, meaning that he or she makes a pleasing self-presentation. *Of nice character, *Kind, *Has Appeal, *Helpful, *Attractiveness that interests, and pleases.
From my experience, being charming is the ability to make someone you have just met feel as if they've known and trusted you all their life.
Charm itself is an abstract trait that causes people to think more of you and do more for you than logic would dictate.
Charm itself is an abstract trait that causes people to think more of you and do more for you than logic would dictate.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
unnamed04
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That's it - the secret to it all.BCOMusic said:charm is about being happy in its simplest form
projecting this happiness on to anyone really, would create a natural aura of charm surrounding you.
It's funny how literally so many people take the words on this website (I sure did when I was completely lost). EVERYTHING points to just finding inner happiness. Once you've found that and found the love for yourself and your life, everyone around you will feel it - and this site, the one big metahpor will suddenly make sense and take new meaning.
Walk down the street and look at every person you see. How many of those people are smiling like they don't have a care in the world? I see maybe one or two happy people per day.
Moods are as contagous as the common cold - If you are swimming in happiness, you'll drown the whole world in your charm.