Charm, let's define it

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mar 14, 2005

i disagree with you guys. charm is a state of being within yourself . regardless of whether you leave people feeling "happy and warm". i know many a person that would fit into what you describe. they are extremely kind people and have never had a cross word for anyone ( at least not in my presence). although they happen to be extremely decent folks they seem to be severely lacking in the "charm" department. charm basically boils down 2 confidence. you can be the warmest, kindest, most generous of people, but if you lack the ability to speak confidently while still being casual. then 'charming" just wouldn't apply

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