"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mostwantedbabyfather

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Does anybody ever try picking up Lassies at charity events? Im thinking bout going to a few upcoming events just cause i think i wanna move away from the club scene.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This may seem a bit stupid but my Mom keeps telling me that there are lots of young 18-mid 20's girls at charity and volunteer events. She likes to volunteer at the big events events in our county and keeps saying that I should do some of that stuff.
 
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I woulds think there would be some as well .Yea theres like a charity event raising money and it has something to do with pets i think i might attend it.
 
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I go all the time and there are a lot of young females there.

It is a good place, plus if it is something close to your heart and you are passionate about it. Then, I'm sure that you could find a like minded individual there.

Plus there are networking oppotunities there.

Be wary though, make sure that you know what the hell you are talking about though.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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