"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charisma v Looks v Game - You Need to Have The "X-Factor" Dudes

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What is it that is important to have in successfully alluring a hot babe, here is the scale of importance from 1 to 10.

Fame or A High Celebrity Status = 10
Excessive Wealth = 9
X-Factor Personality = 9
Good Looks = 6
Great Game = 7

This is the reality of it dudes. :yes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The reality of it is there is no numbers when it comes to hot babes. There is no general guidelines to what men need to attract women. Some simply "have it" and others simply don't
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
What is it that is important to have in successfully alluring a hot babe, here is the scale of importance from 1 to 10.

Fame or A High Celebrity Status = 10
Excessive Wealth = 9
X-Factor Personality = 9
Good Looks = 6
Great Game = 7

This is the reality of it dudes. :yes:
I don't have fame or a high celeb status or money but I get laid. I think you mean, the "things that will help you are"...not, "the most important thing is"...as then only celebs would get laid.

This may be YOUR reality, in your head...but your reality is a damn sight different to my reality, "dude". :yes:
 

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The reality of it is there is no numbers when it comes to hot babes. There is no general guidelines to what men need to attract women. Some simply "have it" and others simply don't
What you are saying here dude is right, some dudes just don't have what it takes to fvck the hottest babes.
Great Game and Good Looks will only work for certain dudes, those who have the Charisma to begin with.
However if you happen to be famous you don't need to have game looks or charisma, you can come accross as a wuss and a dawk and still fvck the hottest babes. :yes:
 

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Worst post of the day.

Another way of limiting yourself is by placing a number beside your name that says this is who you are and it ain't going to get better then this. This is the kind of bvllsh1t negative attitude that society wants you to believe. Get out of the matrix.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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L777 said:
I don't have fame or a high celeb status or money but I get laid. I think you mean, the "things that will help you are"...not, "the most important thing is"...as then only celebs would get laid.

This may be YOUR reality, in your head...but your reality is a damn sight different to my reality, "dude". :yes:
I never said that it is impossible to get laid if you don't have fame or money, I said that fame is the easiest way to get into the pants of the hottest babes, which it is.
If you have fame then you don't need to have anything going for you in the looks and game departments.
Game is obviously more important for a dude who know one knows than it is for some dude who is famous throughout the World.
I am just saying that charisma is much more important than game or looks when it comes to fvcking hot babes.
 

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Why is it that people try to justify their inabilities with impossible traits? What is like the first fvcking thing someone learns on this site? Don't put women on a pedestal.And here we are discussing that being a trillionaire magazine model is a "must" have to bang a hot chick.
 

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DJDamage said:
Worst post of the day.

Another way of limiting yourself is by placing a number beside your name that says this is who you are and it ain't going to get better then this. This is the kind of bvllsh1t negative attitude that society wants you to believe. Get out of the matrix.
You are an idiot dude, all you can do is flame everyone else, you are a troll of the lowest kind, if you don't have anything positive to say then don't fvcking write on my threads.
Everything I have written here is correct, you are too dumb to realize it, if you can't write any good advice yourself leave the site. :mad:
 

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It is correct as in "it will help you" not "need".Besides it is common sense anyway,the thing is that the same thought procedure you had when writing this thread is the leading cause to afcness.
 

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You are an idiot dude, all you can do is flame everyone else, you are a troll of the lowest kind, if you don't have anything positive to say then don't fvcking write on my threads.
Everything I have written here is correct, you are too dumb to realize it, if you can't write any good advice yourself leave the site. :mad:
By next week you will be probably be banned if you continue with bad posts and bad responses to your posts.

This is a forum and my response don't have to be positive especially since I don't agree with it. I gave you the reason why I don't agree with this limited way of thinking.

What you have written here is not correct it's bvllsh1t. Anyone that has a generic scale of telling you that you have less chances of picking up a hot chick because you don't have this or that is an idiot. Bringing your self-limiting beliefs to sosuave is bad and that is my opinion on it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GloriouslyInsane said:
It is correct as in "it will help you" not "need".Besides it is common sense anyway,the thing is that the same thought procedure you had when writing this thread is the leading cause to afcness.
You dudes are starting to frustrate me, you are virtually stating what I have written here to be true, yet you think it is causing dudes to become AFC's.
I am telling you this, some dudes just have that thing, lets call it the X-Factor that makes it extremely easy for them to seduce woman.
These dudes don't need to have very much going for them in the game department at all, they don't even need to sarge, the hot babes are swarming all arround them.
Every single thread on here seems to be about game or looks, yet charisma is the thing that a dude needs if he's going to fvck the hottest babes.
I don't think real DJ's would visit a site like this, they would be flamed as soon as they arrived.
This site is more about dudes trying to look big in the mainstream of things than it is about them becomming successful DJ's, as soon as any dude writes a decent thread he is flamed as being an AFC or a troll, though the fools who post the rubbish are treated like Kings, it is very sad. :mad:
 

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DJDamage said:
By next week you will be probably be banned if you continue with bad posts and bad responses to your posts.

This is a forum and my response don't have to be positive especially since I don't agree with it. I gave you the reason why I don't agree with this limited way of thinking.

What you have written here is not correct it's bvllsh1t. Anyone that has a generic scale of telling you that you have less chances of picking up a hot chick because you don't have this or that is an idiot. Bringing your self-limiting beliefs to sosuave is bad and that is my opinion on it.
Everything I have stated here is correct, it is obviously one of your major aims to upset other dudes and flame them in the hope that they will retaliate and be banned.
I am not a new member, I have been here for a few months, it isn't like I only joined up this week.
You are not going to convince me that I'm wrong with what I've written so you are wasting your time.
I am trying to enlighten dudes to these facts and as far as I'm concerned they are true.
I never intend on giving information that isn't valid regardless of what site I am writting on, I am shocked that very few of you can see the truth in this.
 

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DJDamage said:
...Another way of limiting yourself is by placing a number beside your name that says this is who you are and it ain't going to get better then this. This is the kind of bvllsh1t negative attitude that society wants you to believe. Get out of the matrix.
I wholeheartedly agree. I'm finding that more and more guys are setting limits for themselves by creating these rating systems. Point blank, you either have these traits or you don't, full stop. If you have a trait that you believe you need to enhance, why not just enhance it to your best ability and leave it at that instead of basing your ability to that of someone else? It's apples and oranges.
 

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PigAdlemPimp, i see you're still not getting what i'm trying to convey.Let's say this was a bodybuilding forum and some guy posts "You need to have huge f'in muscles and bribe the judges to be mr. olympia".Now that not only is common sense but he's assuming everyone in a bodybuilding forum wants to become mr.olympia.

Also a newcomer will also start to selfdoubt because he joins a forum to learn how to build muscle and he is told that you need muscles from the beggining..which is like..wtf?

Yeah hello you need game,looks,x-factor,charisma whatever you want call it but the thing is you're actually here to learn how to get that so you can score hbs.

Oh and guys with the x-factor(i really hate this term but wte) that are getting swarmed with hbs are NOT on this forum and probably NEVER will be.

The first thing that goes through an AFCs mind when seeing a hot chick is "Im not rich/funny/muscular enough" and then he fails.
In conclusion,yes you are right that these traits will "pull them b!tches" but we already knew that.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I wholeheartedly agree. I'm finding that more and more guys are setting limits for themselves by creating these rating systems. Point blank, you either have these traits or you don't, full stop. If you have a trait that you believe you need to enhance, why not just enhance it to your best ability and leave it at that instead of basing your ability to that of someone else? It's apples and oranges.
Well you two dudes must be fvcking lots of hot babes, you joined in 2003 and 2004 and are still here, you think it is setting limits, well let me tell you that limits do exist, some dudes can play basketball easier than others, some are better at athletics, don't hide from these things, live in the real World, some dudes are gifted with a natural charisma that empowers them to seduce hot babes easier than others, it isn't about giving up on improving ones game or their strategies about alluring woman, it is about you realizing that some dudes have it easier than others when it comes to the babes.
Why you can't just accept this I don't know.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GloriouslyInsane said:
PigAdlemPimp, i see you're still not getting what i'm trying to convey.Let's say this was a bodybuilding forum and some guy posts "You need to have huge f'in muscles and bribe the judges to be mr. olympia".Now that not only is common sense but he's assuming everyone in a bodybuilding forum wants to become mr.olympia.

Also a newcomer will also start to selfdoubt because he joins a forum to learn how to build muscle and he is told that you need muscles from the beggining..which is like..wtf?

Yeah hello you need game,looks,x-factor,charisma whatever you want call it but the thing is you're actually here to learn how to get that so you can score hbs.

Oh and guys with the x-factor(i really hate this term but wte) that are getting swarmed with hbs are NOT on this forum and probably NEVER will be.

The first thing that goes through an AFCs mind when seeing a hot chick is "Im not rich/funny/muscular enough" and then he fails.
In conclusion,yes you are right that these traits will "pull them b!tches" but we already knew that.
This is going to be my FINAL post on this particular thread, I agree with most of what you have written here.
If one desires to seduce hot babes then they have to make an honest assessment of why they are unable to do this.
First they have to study what will work and how it is working for the dudes who are successful PUA's.
After you have done this you can proceed in looking for way of trying to change it yourself.
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Why you can't just accept this I don't know.
Personally the only thing that I'm curious about is your obvious obsession with obtaining the acceptance of your personal belief by the masses. What are you trying to prove? Does your ego need so much acceptance?

And as it's been said before, a web site (especially this one) won't help your looks. If you believe that it's the paramount necessity for becoming a DJ you'd be better off hanging out at a site like Men's Vogue or something of that nature since this site expounds the belief of more substantial personal qualities.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Personally the only thing that I'm curious about is your obvious obsession with obtaining the acceptance of your personal belief by the masses. What are you trying to prove? Does your ego need so much acceptance?

And as it's been said before, a web site (especially this one) won't help your looks. If you believe that it's the paramount necessity for becoming a DJ you'd be better off hanging out at a site like Men's Vogue or something of that nature since this site expounds the belief of more substantial personal qualities.
If I were obsessed by obtaining the acceptance of the masses I would have posted alot more than 201 times in the five months that I've been here.
About 10 of them are in this thread alone, though I'm a Senior Don Juan now at least, I've got there without being banned. :crackup:
 
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