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Don Juan
Hi All,
I want to improve my conversation skills. I'm not interested in techniques and scripts. That's not my goal. My goal is to improve my natural confidence, charisma and ability to hold a conversation that peaks a woman's interest.
I've read articles on here where someone said charisma, confidence and conversation skills cannot be learned but I think that's bullsh*t. When I first started work I was really shy and only spoke when I needed to. Fast forward a couple of years and I can have a conversation with any workmate. Outside of work, such as in the street or a shop is a different story.
I've also made some friends with women I used to work with.
I know there are a lot of people on here who have been down this exact path. What did you learn that helped you become more confident and charismatic?
And to the guys who have natural confidence and excellent communication skills, please pull your confidence apart and provide some tips on how to be more confident.
I'm definitely pleased with the progress I've made but now want to bring my conversation abilities and confidence to the next level. When I start a conversation with a work colleague things are okay, nothing spectacular. Sometimes they agree to lunch but not much else.
Because I don't have the mindset that enables me to be totally confident I have trouble moving the interaction forward.
And and all advice would be hugely appreciated.
Thanks
I want to improve my conversation skills. I'm not interested in techniques and scripts. That's not my goal. My goal is to improve my natural confidence, charisma and ability to hold a conversation that peaks a woman's interest.
I've read articles on here where someone said charisma, confidence and conversation skills cannot be learned but I think that's bullsh*t. When I first started work I was really shy and only spoke when I needed to. Fast forward a couple of years and I can have a conversation with any workmate. Outside of work, such as in the street or a shop is a different story.
I've also made some friends with women I used to work with.
I know there are a lot of people on here who have been down this exact path. What did you learn that helped you become more confident and charismatic?
And to the guys who have natural confidence and excellent communication skills, please pull your confidence apart and provide some tips on how to be more confident.
I'm definitely pleased with the progress I've made but now want to bring my conversation abilities and confidence to the next level. When I start a conversation with a work colleague things are okay, nothing spectacular. Sometimes they agree to lunch but not much else.
Because I don't have the mindset that enables me to be totally confident I have trouble moving the interaction forward.
And and all advice would be hugely appreciated.
Thanks