"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Charging For Air

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Good field report this.......

So I'm standing at the bar, and the place is quite busy so it's taking a while to get served. Eventually I'm getting the drinks (two beers and a Morgans and coke) and then another barmaid comes over to me....

Barmaid: (touching me on the arm) Are you getting served?

The Class: Yes thanks.


Now to say there was a "connection" during this particular encounter may be an exageration BUT I definately feel we shared a moment.

I felt that the perfection of this meeting was to be the peak of our relationship so persuing it any further would have been a mistake.

The intensity of this collision of two lost souls was so great that in future I wouldn't have a problem refering to her in conversation as my ex-girlfriend.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh. My. God.

Some tough love - that wasn't a field report. It wasn't a report of any kind, unless you count someone asking you a question that comes with doing their job as being something it's not. I hope to god that this was a joke post, because if it's not then there is seriously something wrong with the situation at hand... you've been here for almost 4 years now and have come back after nearly a year to post a "field report" about something as commonplace and uneventful as this?! She asked you if someone was helping you already (something that virtually every server does) and the next thing you're doing is coming on here calling it a field report and saying how because of this entire 1-sentence "conversation" that you had, she's now your ex-girlfriend? You need to read the DJB again and refresh.

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Yoiu should have asked her to marry you!!!:rolleyes:

Diablo - he is obviously joking! Read the title of this thread - Nonsensical!
 

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That's harsh man.

I live for these moments and I was flying in the clouds on a real high and you've just shot me out of the sky like a one-winged pigeon flying in circles.

I mean what do you mean this isn't good progression? The whole thing felt like something out of a film to me. It was magical. I've never had an experience like it before or after.

Don't rain on my parade man. This is a personel success and a credit to the board.

The Class.
 

Lost In Translation

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It was magical. I've never had an experience like it before or after.

best post ever Classy Q Driver :D

i feel elevated having just read that " when two starstruck lovers collide " type post

LOL diablo's reaction was too funny *Oh. My. God.:)


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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