I will reply here as well as on the other post,
@stormrider because the information is the same. Note that nowhere am I suggesting a contrived approach. People who have character tend to cluster in various places because that is who they are and what they do. Correct. In such places they will associate with other people of character. People who are doing things that are service oriented or self discipline oriented tend to be more likely to have character as a group. Water seeks its own level. That I why I gave such examples. As I noted previously in reference to the posts by Colossus he suggests this as well. In the past I've had men here say "Where do I find these women???" and I'll tell them anywhere as you also note...but their vibe has to be the right vibe or they will never recognize these women...and they will at the same time be invisible to these women. So we agree on the merits.
I also agree that people who have character tend to locate one another in any environment and I concur with your serendipity ideas because the Law of Attraction is utterly true. I have seen it work for many years with incredible specificity and swiftness over and over and over again in my own life. I am so confident in it, in fact that I trust it will manifest exactly what I want and it has done so professionally, personally, and in the arena of all sorts of places in my life so much that I know it to be true. I could give example after example after example as recently as last week when an incredible opportunity for my daughter appeared and the exact car I stated in passing would be great to own is now sitting in my garage. The universe blesses with such abundance that it is awesome in the true sense of the word. I have great gratitude for the blessings and opportunities I am given.
Connection and wavelength and serendipity are interesting. I have found that at times the universe places certain things and certain circumstances and certain people in our lives for very specific reasons. We may not always know the logic or the grand design behind why something organic happens, we just have to trust that the design is working in the backdrop for something greater and allow it to manifest, because it will. I have experienced this on an extraordinary level recently and I am awed and humbled by it.
Part of the trouble with people is their lack of belief which manifests as a belief in lack. Attitudes of lack block the abundance of the universe and association with people who are mired in attitudes of lack ALSO block abundance.
That is why who you align yourself with is so very important. Truly positive people overflow with energy and pour out opportunity to those around them. An amazing energy exchange occurs between two such people or more such people associate and the resulting cascade is uplifting in nature. These people are the natural connectors or super connectors out there. The ones who seem to create opportunity everywhere they go. So yes. I cannot agree strongly enough for this imbues my own life in an incredible way all. the. time. As I said I am filled with gratitude and humility and frankly a sense of wonder about it.
It's no different in dating. I know instantly if there is connection to a man. I know if there is connection BEFORE the introduction occurs. That doesn't happen with every man, and those where there is none I politely decline. This is efficient and saves everyone time. It also keeps me open to the men who DO connect with me and so I have been fortunate enough to have incredible chemistry/connection with the men in my life.
The chemistry/connection/serendipity with my recent ex BF was incredible. For both of us. People were/are enthralled by the energy of the two of us together. In the videos of us it is there without exception. Everyone could see it. So I get it.
I will not accept anything less than an amazing connection. Therefore the universe grants this and presents those possibilities.
Law of Attraction. Absolutely.
