I'm sure there are some of you who started off skinny or fat, or no sense of style, or bad haircut, etc etc back at a time when you were getting no action. Now for those of you that changed your appearance by going to gym, buying nicer clothes, better car, nicer hair, etc etc did you find a big difference in amount of IOIs you got from chics based on those physical changes alone?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ABSOLUTELY! 5 years ago, I was the biggest geek ever! I was very much into chess, computers, magic... And my appearance? HAH! Though I was not physically ugly, my hairstyle, clothing, and personality made me a girl repellant! Hot girls didn't even want to be my friend, so I wasn't even in the friend zone with them The popular people would ignore me and I felt like I didn't exist when I said something among them!
My hair would be slicked to the side with a comb, and I'd wear horrible looking button-up shirts that were 2 sizes too big and buttoned all the way to the top button, My shirt was tucked into a pair of Salvation Army jeans, and I'd wear tube socks topped off with a pair of Payless shoes that I thought were awesome (what an idiot!) and looked like they were several sizes too big on my feet.
I slowly realized my horrible mistakes, and corrected them! I later moved out of State, and it gave me a chance to start a whole new identity. I was MUCH better groomed, I had acquired a taste for fashion, and I had improved SO VERY MUCH in my social skills.. I became a complete different person! I came back and saw those "friends" who used to make fun of me all the time and I'd put up with it.. I saw them again 2 years later and it was completely different.. They saw me in a new perspective! I was a taller, better looking, and very sociable guy! THe guys that used to make fun of me all the time actually looked up to me and I realized how they treated me as the AMOG!! People are so shallow!! They were telling me how much I had changed, but they didn't have to.. I could see the results!!
The girls that had rejected me before, THEY WERE THE ONES APPRAOCHING ME! They were the ones wanting to hang out and they were the ones asking for my number.. They didn't even remember who I was, because they never gave me the time of day before! Of course I rejected them (not as harsh as they did to me)! I didn't feel intimidated by them one bit, because I felt that I could do better than them. For the first time, I actually felt better about myself!
The change in my appearance also caused a change in confidence! Though insecurities tend to haunt me at times, that quickly wears off after seeing my results with girls.
THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT! Yes! Appearance makes a huge difference, and you'd be surprised how much in control you are of the way you look!
I try to be a good friend and a nice person! I don't judge people by their appearances, because that's what people did to me before, and it really damages.. If I see someone that is full of potential, yet lacks the knowledge to improving themselves, I'll try to help them out instead of making fun of them! Making fun of them would be horrible, because I know what it was like to be them.. It's a ****ed up world we live in! People DO judge you on your appearance! ESPECIALLY women!
My hair would be slicked to the side with a comb, and I'd wear horrible looking button-up shirts that were 2 sizes too big and buttoned all the way to the top button, My shirt was tucked into a pair of Salvation Army jeans, and I'd wear tube socks topped off with a pair of Payless shoes that I thought were awesome (what an idiot!) and looked like they were several sizes too big on my feet.
I slowly realized my horrible mistakes, and corrected them! I later moved out of State, and it gave me a chance to start a whole new identity. I was MUCH better groomed, I had acquired a taste for fashion, and I had improved SO VERY MUCH in my social skills.. I became a complete different person! I came back and saw those "friends" who used to make fun of me all the time and I'd put up with it.. I saw them again 2 years later and it was completely different.. They saw me in a new perspective! I was a taller, better looking, and very sociable guy! THe guys that used to make fun of me all the time actually looked up to me and I realized how they treated me as the AMOG!! People are so shallow!! They were telling me how much I had changed, but they didn't have to.. I could see the results!!
The girls that had rejected me before, THEY WERE THE ONES APPRAOCHING ME! They were the ones wanting to hang out and they were the ones asking for my number.. They didn't even remember who I was, because they never gave me the time of day before! Of course I rejected them (not as harsh as they did to me)! I didn't feel intimidated by them one bit, because I felt that I could do better than them. For the first time, I actually felt better about myself!
The change in my appearance also caused a change in confidence! Though insecurities tend to haunt me at times, that quickly wears off after seeing my results with girls.
THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT! Yes! Appearance makes a huge difference, and you'd be surprised how much in control you are of the way you look!
I try to be a good friend and a nice person! I don't judge people by their appearances, because that's what people did to me before, and it really damages.. If I see someone that is full of potential, yet lacks the knowledge to improving themselves, I'll try to help them out instead of making fun of them! Making fun of them would be horrible, because I know what it was like to be them.. It's a ****ed up world we live in! People DO judge you on your appearance! ESPECIALLY women!
seanchai
Master Don Juan
I've become more comfortable in general with how I look. I remember being 15 and in high school, decked out head to toe in Abercrombie, and still being self-conscious about people looking at me - even though I looked EXACTLY like everyone else. Now I'm 21 and dress on the outer boundaries of what can be considered fashionable, but I'm very stylish and my style is authentic. I don't notice people looking at me anymore and am usually surprised when the people I'm with tell me others are checking me out.
A good way to get through this period is to constantly push your sartorial comfort zone. I used to wear Eurotrashy little Spanish club tops and blazers on campus with my silver pointy boots and feel very fvcked up in my head. I KNEW people were looking at me, and I had to force my confidence and personality level to rise to the level I was ******dly conveying.
A good way to get through this period is to constantly push your sartorial comfort zone. I used to wear Eurotrashy little Spanish club tops and blazers on campus with my silver pointy boots and feel very fvcked up in my head. I KNEW people were looking at me, and I had to force my confidence and personality level to rise to the level I was ******dly conveying.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Only thing that I did was get rid of my damn glasses and got contacts. Best damn thing I ever did.
now, I am always getting IOI's, but I believe that I owe everything to my personality and willingness to try anything new.
It was not about looks (I was athletic to begin with, naturally muscular, and a nice face), but it was all about the personality that i had to work on. Now, I could get women left and right, but I have a girlfriend whom I am very happy with (the only reason that i put that in there is invaribly there will be a person that says if you could then why don't you break up ith her and get massive amounts of pvssy?)
comic_relief
EDIT: I wear gym clothes with t-shirts that don't even match. I still get lots of IOI's from women all over the place. My style is not unique, but comfortable and I am able to have the most fun.
now, I am always getting IOI's, but I believe that I owe everything to my personality and willingness to try anything new.
It was not about looks (I was athletic to begin with, naturally muscular, and a nice face), but it was all about the personality that i had to work on. Now, I could get women left and right, but I have a girlfriend whom I am very happy with (the only reason that i put that in there is invaribly there will be a person that says if you could then why don't you break up ith her and get massive amounts of pvssy?)
comic_relief
EDIT: I wear gym clothes with t-shirts that don't even match. I still get lots of IOI's from women all over the place. My style is not unique, but comfortable and I am able to have the most fun.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
speakeasy said:
yes.
Having fitness indicators improve your chances of scoring hotter and hotter women.
This is basic human nature and interaction at play, one needs to really grasp this concept before any verbal game is even attempted, without fitness indicators, most guys and women severly harm there mate potential.
Every man on this board and any seduction ideal should be making effor to increase there market value, most say this is 'cash' when the truth of it is, simple human genetics, i.e showing you will have babies that will get mates, i.e the constant passing on of your genes, to maintain there suvival this is the basic foundation of all courtship behaviours, any person who does not grasp this really is doing himself no favours at all.
Constant improvement is not only good for your world interactions it helps in passing on your genes, it is the way it is.
Anyone and i mean 'anyone' who has embraced this concept achieves success with the opposite sex, always, everyone!
your genes are in control and they want to be passed on to mates who will gurantee your genes surivive, this is what 'sex' is, if you have areas that need improving, i would suggest working in it NOW then thinking about it.
I was a geek at school, spots the works, used to wear flowerpower tops, i understoond along time ago, i needed a change, i changed my identity when i left shcool, i started to dress good, get rid of the spots, work hard in maintaining my look 'market' value and i changed from a ugly duckling into a swan and i have 'never' looked back.
I always strive for improvement.
Put down the seduction books and get to the gym, get to the shops, make yourself has attractive has you could possibly be.
you can read the seduction till your blue in the face and have the knowledge to seduce the hottest of chick, but if you dont increase your market value or fitness indiactors it will mean 'nothing'
If anyone want's to pm me for some personal advice on this, i am happy to help.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'd challenge everyone to ask themselves whether the change itself made a bigger difference or was it how the change made them feel about themselves which made more of an impact.
I think they both have positive application and to me even more reason to make that change, hightened confidence, self actulization and being able to look your self in the mirror with postive affirmations then negative framing.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Changes appearance for me and growing and improving, (currently working out and building muscle mass) has a lot going for it, you feel sexier naked, with tight tops on, with shirt that are designed to fit your frame, jeans that have style tops to suit your looks, all help to give confidence.
And when all is said and done, to deny looks ok to Deny indicators of fitness which can be many things, is to deny that women dont like those things, i know women like those things, so a product of projecting out an inner confidence mixed in with a fitness indicators can only help and boost any ones chances.
I have been chatted up by hot women when i am out and i have seen hot women chat up guys oozing sex apeal, one cant deny it, everyone should make every effort to make themselves has attractive to the opposite sex, if they truely want increased success with women, this i will stand by with my last breath.
Granted some guys can score women without this, but playing the numbers game and having bags of hidden confidence and natural charm, style and social worth, but what i see here is fitness indicators, its not just about looks but about making efforts to improve in all area's, looks is just a small part of it.
