Changing school self into concert self

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Last saturday I was at an all-day concert, and when I was there, I was a confident mother f***er...I was the first (sometimes only) in my p*ssy-@ss group to go into moshpits and crowdsurfing, etc...I felt fearless...I went to find chicks when bands I didn't like were playing...I was loud and proud, I approached whoever the hell I wanted to...how can I be in this kind of mode at school? I'm not near the dipsh*t I used to be at school, but I'm rarely the first to do something daring, and not much of an approachist (though I'm definitely getting better at that)...any thoughts, observations, etc?

And while I'm asking questions, what are some good comedians I can download from *****, as I'm trying to work on my sense of humor (I usually just get awkward pauses and funny looks, as opposed to laughs)

 

[Jimbo2k]

Originally posted by Need-2-B-Pimpin
Last saturday I was at an all-day concert, and when I was there, I was a confident mother f***er...I was the first (sometimes only) in my p*ssy-@ss group to go into moshpits and crowdsurfing, etc...I felt fearless...I went to find chicks when bands I didn't like were playing...I was loud and proud, I approached whoever the hell I wanted to...how can I be in this kind of mode at school? I'm not near the dipsh*t I used to be at school, but I'm rarely the first to do something daring, and not much of an approachist (though I'm definitely getting better at that)...any thoughts, observations, etc?

The obvious factor your missing is the difference in atmosphere of a concert and highschool. You were outgoing at the concert because of the atmosphere - it got you pumped. You were enjoying yourself, got worked up in the pit, and made the most of it. Im not sure how you can transfer this mindset to highschool - its not quite as exciting as a concert

Maybe someone has some tips on how to steer your mindset in the direction you want...

 

[MacdaddyJr]

This is how I get pumped up for school to be daring and confident. I get good sleep, I start my mourning by listening to something that makes me excited and happy. I happen to like the heavy metal of the 80's and 90's such as Queensryche, judas Priest, Iron Maiden, and a whole bunch of others. I listen to my favorite songs while I dress and get ready. So I go to school already in a damn good mood. I also got a couple quotes in my room that motivate me tp do better as well.

My favorite stand up comedians are Richard Pryor(all of his stuff), Eddie Murphy(Delerious), Jon stewart, George Carlin, chris rock, to name just a few. These guys in my opinion, and in a lot others as well, are the best. Try watching their stuff. I swear I cry laughing everytime I see one of there standups.

Also, put yourself in daring postions that you can and sometimes can't handle. Do it even though you don't want to!! Tell the afc in you to shut the fvck up!!!

You'll become less worried of underachieving because at least YOU had the guts to try. Once you get over fear, you'll be unstopable.

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Thanks for the recommendations, and keep 'em comin.

I used to listen to metal in the morning but all it did was get me in a rather hostile mood, so now, if anything, I start off the day with some Red Hot Chili Peppers.

 

[MacdaddyJr]

Yeah, try "Eye of the Tiger" by survivor. LOL I like that song

 

[DjMystery]

My Comedy List:

1. George Lopez
2. Dave Chapelle
3. Richard Pryor
4. Chris Rock
5. Bruce Bruce
6. Gabriel Inglesias
7. Red Fox
8. Freddy Garcia

Those are just a few of the the people I listen to

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

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