"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Changing rooms

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*this is not a gay thread*

How comfortable are you with your body?

When you have been to a swimming pool and you got to the changing rooms to get back into your dry clothes, you are soaking wet and wearing swimming shorts.

At some point you will have to dry yourself and get fully undressed down there before getting back into normal clothes.

Say the changing room had a few other fully grown men in it, do you feel comfortable letting the little guy hang loose and getting completely naked as if it were normal or do you try and hide under a towel?

Or else even try and find a private cubicle or go into the loos and change in there?

I ask because the pool I go to has the whole range of people hiding it to walking around naked, so I just wonder how comfortable everyone is in their own skin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i've played sports my entire life so it's something i'm used to.

I'm i'm in the middle. i don't care about being naked around other men and it's not a big deal but i'm not the guy sitting in the locker room startch ass naked picking his toenails either lol. every gym has a few of those guys who like to come up to you and talk to you **** just going everywhere lol i'm like dude no.

i don't mind taking my clothes off but i do what i got to do and get on with it
 
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I used to go to the university pool on field trips when I was a kid. I remember at the time thinking that those grown ass men were a little too comfortable being around pre-teens .

Like backbreaker said, just don't be one of those guys who lets his sh1t flop around for everybody.
 
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I go to the gym and sometime me and my friend will go to sonna , pool, and then take shower. Usually that involves us changing .


I usually turn around facing the lockers and put on my underwear/shorts as soon as possible then wear my clothes.

Most people are like that , but there are some (usually older guys) walking around the locker room with their two inch peckers flopping around. I actually hate that. Needless to say i was scarred for life.


My first experience in the changing room was pretty bad lol. I went int there was talking to my friend and this old guy prolly 70 was walking around but naket WITH A TOWEL on his shoulder. I was like wtf he could use that towel to cover himself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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^ LMAO

seriously , why do old folks go around butt naked?
i remember my grandad was always naked at home and his wife would always nag and argue over that.

the guy would put out trash while naked saying "this is my house,my rules" loooooool now you know where i get it from lmao
 
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I would not feel that comfortable but i would not care that much being around other naked guys. (for a short time) :)
 
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