"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Changing profile email address

Francisco d'Anconia

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I just changed my email address in my profile and I had no idea that I had to respond to an auto generated email confirming the address. By luck I checked my email and there it was.

The problem is that I had tried to reply to forum posts and I got a message alluding that my account may have been deactivated or was waiting for authorization. Those messages led me to believe that a moderator had to do something to my account.

A suggestion is letting users know in no uncertain terms when they change things that need verification that THEY need to do something. I was going to send a note to one of the mods asking if I had pissed someone off thus someone locked my account. It's not as if I would intentionally piss someone off... :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eternal

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I always thought that when you changed your email address, the screen said "a confirmation email has been sent to your new address," or something like that.

Guess it should now since a lot of people seem to change their addresses, then not answer the email and wonder why they are seemingly banned.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I just changed it again and a message did pop up but very briefly (just a second or two) before automatically advancing to the next page. I did see the word email somewhere in the message but that was because my eyes caught it because you said that the message mentions it. I guess it would help if you guys could set it so that a button could be pressed to advance to the next page.
 

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I just changed my email address in my profile and I had no idea that I had to respond to an auto generated email confirming the address. By luck I checked my email and there it was.


is true i just changed my email and i thought my account was suspended or something ....i guess that would be a great idea. u guys should change the pop up window for more than 2 seconds...is confusing:mad:
 
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