Changing mobile number to help getting over a girl

[Lion1985]

Hi there

im currently in NC at my ex, its very hard.
shes not at my FB friend list, also deleted her number (unfortunanely memorized in my head)
last days i thinking strongly to change my mobile number.
I think it will help me psychologically, it would make an "end" and an "restart"
I would stop thinking "when will she contact me again"...with changing my digits it will kill the hope.
this fvcking hope is withholding me.
blocking apps wouldnt help because I will have the urge to deinstall them again.
i need the drastic withdrawal.
A new number is not a big deal, I use prepaid .
My biggest fear is if i ditch the old sms/number my mind will go crazy "buy maybe she called, maybe she will call at my birtday"...and I will regret it...
and what if she will call in some months to talk to me and she cant becasue she doesnt have my new digit?
what you guys think..

 

[Infern0]

Thats really a trivial thing because at the end of the day if she wants to get hold of you she will unless you become a monk and go live up a mountain somewhere.

Better to focus in why this is effecting you so badly. Anything else is a band aid to a bullet wound.

 

[soulforge]

I get your situation bro.. i did in fact change my sim card.


And its a killer thinking wether she has called or texted.. it does feel like torment sometimes..

But if she is toxic.. then you have to do everything you can to protect yourself..

Sometimes i wish maybe i should not have gone to those lengths, but i really felt no choice at the time