"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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changing life = changing confidence

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tom121

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recently my life has been really ****ed up, i dropped out of college because i didn't want to make computer games in the future, i wanted to do something not related to computer and has more freedom, something like outdoor-ish. anyway i was out of work for 1 month since i dropped out.

i lost a lot of confidence in myself because i thought i was useless, i did not know what my interest were, and i did not have too many friends to hang out with.

what really changed me lately was I finally got my first job, it's only $6/hr but I will be the cashier's helper. it's a crappy job, but it's easy.

although that's not all it boost my confidence, my driver license, which I've been meaning to get it, i got it, after 3rd tries at the road test, i got it :D

whenever I am driving with my pounding trance music playing out loud, i always make ladies turn their head and looking at my ride :eek: :p it feels good

i also learnt that if I dress nicely i could get a lot of ladies attention, for example: i went to the job interview, dress up as a jean, a white shirt with top button open, a nice shade ($10 but my friend gave it to me,) some crappy shoe and a lot of ladies were checking me out during on the bus or while i was walking...

some older ladies were even starting conversation with me :eek: :down:




anyway my point is, change your self, do whatever it takes to boost your own confidence, it will change your life and the people around you, don't let people judge you for what you are, or how you dress, good luck.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
I fail to see how dropping out of college and getting $6/hour is a life improvement
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you may be right but it's my first real job, i use to volunteer.. plus i wasn't doing good in college so it's a waste of my parents money plus i needed money because i get $40 allowance every week and isn't enough for me
 
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