"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is it possible to change your image in highschool during the year? like school started 2 months ago and i juss transfered into a new school im just a quiet kid who laughs at jokes. i want the same rep i had in my old school where i was the class clown but for some reason this school is different. anyways what can i do to change what ppl think about me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Smile and meet everybody. Introduce yourself and make people laugh. If you were "class clown" at your old school, you should have no problem being funny. Just go out and meet people and have fun. The more people know you, the more solid your rep will be.

-Damian
 
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make good friends with the popular kids, and bring out that class clown in class ( dont be that quite new kid that no ones knows and just calls " o that new kid" )
 
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All he has to do is make friends. He can be the leader of his own pack.

He doesn't even have to be a "class clown".

A few witty or funny or both every there and again is alright.
 
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Originally posted by pimp in trainig
is it possible to change your image in highschool during the year? like school started 2 months ago and i juss transfered into a new school im just a quiet kid who laughs at jokes. i want the same rep i had in my old school where i was the class clown but for some reason this school is different. anyways what can i do to change what ppl think about me
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Yo man, I was the same as you last year. I moved from a school where I knew everyone.

Then going to a school where everyone grew up together wasn't easy to fit into. Even after a year, I'm still meeting new people. Always set a good impression so they'd wanna get to know you better. This works with girls.

You gotta always be positive and not awkward. You need people skills and motivation. When people invite you over, GO when you can.

Join sports, I think thats the easiest. You bond with your team mates and they help you out settling in. Even plays, school clubs.

Just make sure you set the impression of being a great guy to be with and people will wanna get to know you.

Good luck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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just be confident, say whats on your mind even if your voice quivers.
 
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