"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Changes in behavior?

OamImrsNemo

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So Everything has been going good with this girl...But recently she has changed She doesnt show affection as much kiss as much and she has not been staying the night like usual? Im totally confused as everything has been going great? So I am assuming my next move is to become more busy show her I dont need her in my life and then she will change and if she doesnt just next her? does that sound accurate?

O p.s.

Example Tonight: she fell asleep while we were watching a movie I went to pick her up and take her to bed and she was like dont? I was like why? she says cause Im not staying the night..so I am like why not and she just ignored me and pretended to be asleep? I got annoyed said well Im going to bed and let her out the door..then she texts me saying sorry I didnt stay the night..so I sent a text back saying well I just dont understand..


What Should my next move be?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Commandante

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OamImrsNemo said:
Example Tonight
It´s a good one.

OamImrsNemo said:
she fell asleep while we were watching a movie
Because she was bored to death. She was expecting something more exciting. Do you have any idea what she could expect?

OamImrsNemo said:
I went to pick her up and take her to bed
You should wake her up and fvck her in front of the TV or vice versa. You are not her dad (I hope :eek:)), you are the one who fvcks her. Act like that.

OamImrsNemo said:
and she was like dont? I was like why? she says cause Im not staying the night..
what she didn´t said, but thought: "...only if I might have you coock inside of me..."

OamImrsNemo said:
so I am like why not and she just ignored me and pretended to be asleep?
She was waiting for your ripping her clothes off. Or she likes beeing fvcked while asleep (there are girls like that).

OamImrsNemo said:
I got annoyed said well Im going to bed and let her out the door
If you feel annoyed you already know you fvcked up.

OamImrsNemo said:
then she texts me saying sorry I didnt stay the night
Which means: "what a pity you don´t have balls"

OamImrsNemo said:
so I sent a text back saying well I just dont understand
Maybe you understand it now.

OamImrsNemo said:
What Should my next move be?
Don´t hide your sexuality and don´t take women seriously. It is that easy.
 

Ease

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Her interest might be dropping. Pull back your affection. Your gut instinct is tellig you her interest level is declining, the signs are clear.

Not to worry, it happens.

Let her do what she wants, dont be effected by her actions.

Its good that you are prepared to next her and find someone else if things dont go well, but not good that you are losing your mind at interest level jumps and strange behaviour. Girls exhibit strange behaviour all the time, all you can do is relax, be happy and have fun.

Your next move is the universal move when interest level declines in a woman. Pull back. Seem uninterested in her. Make her anxious, make her wonder, make her miss your affection and interest. Be scarce.

Be busy, but choose to be busy. http://www.theattractionforums.com/relationships/84751-being-busy-vs-choosing-busy-over-her.html

Dont 'show her that you dont need her in your life', let her come to that conclusion herself. Then she will be all over you again and life will be well.

The link is brilliant LTR game, read that. Its great insight.
 
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