She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Real beef is proper beef, not corned beef.. any cut of beef, ground beef, any type of steak..Originally posted by change
Ok thanks for the tips. By real beef do you mean like steak ground beef?
What are the leanest sources for beef as well.
Also what is the leanest beef i can get from a deli?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some sort of metabolism booster is vital when trying to trim down, aside from am cardio.. green tea is healthy and very effective.Originally posted by silverwex
Just how important is Green Tea when trying to cut BF?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hmm chinups isnt such a great exercise for the whole back.Originally posted by change
Weight: 175 and some change
Today = back day
Chinups: I did the one lift a day thing again
so I did seven sets of 5 chinups with varying weights either helping me lift myself up The least weight I had was 60 pounds, the most was the first at 80 pounds.
End of week 2
Pic: http://www.geocities.com/jonnyhighwire/meweek2.jpg
Ive been taking peoples advice and eating more beef. I think that might be helping. But im definitely gaining weight.
Thanks.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
hmm chinups isnt such a great exercise for the whole back.
you posted that pic already on page 2 !!
get the next pic with more light like in the first one.
good luck !:woo:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.