hey there,i have been wasting my time with head games/seduction b.s for the last few months on one girl,to find out she liked me a few months ago.. and i totally never knew,i missed my chance.. and for the last few months ive been "playing all aloof,acting disinterested,c & f,doing everything possible to get into her pants......i have kept my feelings for her so gaurded to myself that i didnt bother tell anyone,and it has been a big waste of time figuring out the headgames she plays fella's.. and this post changed my mind
it was by bondjamesbond posted on so suave years ago...he wrote this...
"I wish I could be me, 25 years ago, knowing what I know now.
Guys, you have to ASK!!! It's the only way you'll ever find out if a woman finds you attractive.
Drive by a nursing home sometime. Look at all the old men sitting around watching the grass grow. That's gonna be you (and I) someday.........Don't get old only to look back and think "IF only I would have".........SIEZE THE DAY!! Stop being chickensh**.........Don't be too patient with any chick, don't play games, don't be "friends", get a dog if you want a friend..........don't let them "lead you on"............Find the ones who already know that they'll screw with you and your life will be alot less complicated! You just have to know how to spot 'em!!!...........Best Wishes!"
I read that post.and thought what the hell have i done the last few months?
lusted over one girl,wasted so much energy and i dont even know if she still likes me?
so just before,i called up my ex (i couldnt reach the girl i like) and asked my ex and told her everything,turns out the girl i like dosent feel the same anymore,and hasnt for a few months... and im not even disapointed. why waste the time you spend on a girl that could end up not liking you anymore/at all? ....... seize the day,i feel so much better
it was by bondjamesbond posted on so suave years ago...he wrote this...
"I wish I could be me, 25 years ago, knowing what I know now.
Guys, you have to ASK!!! It's the only way you'll ever find out if a woman finds you attractive.
Drive by a nursing home sometime. Look at all the old men sitting around watching the grass grow. That's gonna be you (and I) someday.........Don't get old only to look back and think "IF only I would have".........SIEZE THE DAY!! Stop being chickensh**.........Don't be too patient with any chick, don't play games, don't be "friends", get a dog if you want a friend..........don't let them "lead you on"............Find the ones who already know that they'll screw with you and your life will be alot less complicated! You just have to know how to spot 'em!!!...........Best Wishes!"
I read that post.and thought what the hell have i done the last few months?
lusted over one girl,wasted so much energy and i dont even know if she still likes me?
so just before,i called up my ex (i couldnt reach the girl i like) and asked my ex and told her everything,turns out the girl i like dosent feel the same anymore,and hasnt for a few months... and im not even disapointed. why waste the time you spend on a girl that could end up not liking you anymore/at all? ....... seize the day,i feel so much better