Let me tell u a story about how I killed the AFC attitude.
November-February 2001-2002
I was 18 at the time and I was attending college. I was going out with this girl on a date and I use to speak to her all of the time. I mean every chance I got I would talk to her. At first when we meet I didn’t pay any attention to her, and then she started to ask me to go places with her, but I would say no (I liked her but wasn’t feeling her at the time) however during November we went out once (I was an AFC). Then I started to like her even more and I would 2way here every chance and always call her (I was a real nice guy), then during December and January she would treat me like DODO. Then on February I called her and asked her to have lunch with me because we were going to attend a convention. She said yes at first then a week later she said she couldn’t because she is going to have lunch with her family (so I believed her). However on the day of the convention she didn’t have lunch with her family. She had lunch with her friends and acted like I was invisible (this is when a bell went off in my head).
March
This is when I became a Jerk. I stopped caring about her and thinking about her and started to focus on getting and meeting other girls. It was hard at first because I was still a AFC. I had a lot of fear when approaching women. I got played a lot and rejected however I started to feel more confident and rely on myself more.
I didn’t allow the fear to keep me on AFC status. So I started talking to this 21year old chick in my economics class. I used eye contact and she “all in my grill”. So I wasted no time and get her phone number (her cell, home # and e-mail). So the next week I asked her out.
ME: where going to go out Saturday night
HER: ok
The reason I told her we where going out is because I didn’t want to give her any choice (I learned earlier never give a women a choice). However the plans didn’t go through because she said her cousin came over on a surprise visit. This didn’t bother me too much because I was getting very close with another girl in my psychology class. Now the girl in my psy class was filling me a lot. So on night I was on aol and she instant messaged me. So I told her “we are going out tomorrow”. She said she lives in queens, I said I don’t give a dame, that next night we went out to the arcade on 42nd and the movies and I got to tongue her down. Now the 21year old 2way me that night telling me that she was still sick because I set up another date with her, however I didn’t care because I was with another girl.
April
I lost a lot of my AFC ways. I was meeting new girls and my status was going up. Now the girl I took to the Arcade we went out again to BBQ’s and that next night I finally went out with that 21 year old to go she the movie “changing lanes”. Now I felt like the man. After years of being rejected and even that month a girl played me (We set up a date and she give me her number when I call her to see if she is ready she tells me she is with her family. Now we all know if a female is interested she is not going to be chilling in the living playing cards with her family). But I didn’t care because I was dating to girls at once.
Now if I can get rid of my AFC ways in 3months and I just turned 19 anyone can do it. All u have to do is have confidence in your self and say f*#k anyone that tries to put u down.
There is a PART II and a REMIX to this post coming seen.
November-February 2001-2002
I was 18 at the time and I was attending college. I was going out with this girl on a date and I use to speak to her all of the time. I mean every chance I got I would talk to her. At first when we meet I didn’t pay any attention to her, and then she started to ask me to go places with her, but I would say no (I liked her but wasn’t feeling her at the time) however during November we went out once (I was an AFC). Then I started to like her even more and I would 2way here every chance and always call her (I was a real nice guy), then during December and January she would treat me like DODO. Then on February I called her and asked her to have lunch with me because we were going to attend a convention. She said yes at first then a week later she said she couldn’t because she is going to have lunch with her family (so I believed her). However on the day of the convention she didn’t have lunch with her family. She had lunch with her friends and acted like I was invisible (this is when a bell went off in my head).
March
This is when I became a Jerk. I stopped caring about her and thinking about her and started to focus on getting and meeting other girls. It was hard at first because I was still a AFC. I had a lot of fear when approaching women. I got played a lot and rejected however I started to feel more confident and rely on myself more.
I didn’t allow the fear to keep me on AFC status. So I started talking to this 21year old chick in my economics class. I used eye contact and she “all in my grill”. So I wasted no time and get her phone number (her cell, home # and e-mail). So the next week I asked her out.
ME: where going to go out Saturday night
HER: ok
The reason I told her we where going out is because I didn’t want to give her any choice (I learned earlier never give a women a choice). However the plans didn’t go through because she said her cousin came over on a surprise visit. This didn’t bother me too much because I was getting very close with another girl in my psychology class. Now the girl in my psy class was filling me a lot. So on night I was on aol and she instant messaged me. So I told her “we are going out tomorrow”. She said she lives in queens, I said I don’t give a dame, that next night we went out to the arcade on 42nd and the movies and I got to tongue her down. Now the 21year old 2way me that night telling me that she was still sick because I set up another date with her, however I didn’t care because I was with another girl.
April
I lost a lot of my AFC ways. I was meeting new girls and my status was going up. Now the girl I took to the Arcade we went out again to BBQ’s and that next night I finally went out with that 21 year old to go she the movie “changing lanes”. Now I felt like the man. After years of being rejected and even that month a girl played me (We set up a date and she give me her number when I call her to see if she is ready she tells me she is with her family. Now we all know if a female is interested she is not going to be chilling in the living playing cards with her family). But I didn’t care because I was dating to girls at once.
Now if I can get rid of my AFC ways in 3months and I just turned 19 anyone can do it. All u have to do is have confidence in your self and say f*#k anyone that tries to put u down.
There is a PART II and a REMIX to this post coming seen.
