"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've been reading some great books recently, and wanted to share a few great titles:

1. Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway.

I'm about halfway through and it is an amazing read. It is already helping me to get out of my comfort zone/rut and it feels great to do so.

2. Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz.

Another great read. The basic premise here is that once you establish clear goals, you will automatically find every resource necessary to achieve them. There's a bit more detail and complexity but that's the starting premise and it is sound.

3. Maximum Achievement. A classic work by Brian Tracy. I dare say, a must read.

You guys have a lot of potential. Don't squander it by complaining about others: improve yourself and your results will improve drastically.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanks for the suggestions.

Right now I'm reading King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine. Amazon link. Which came highly recommended off another site. I'm only half-way through as well, but so far so good.
 

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Picked up a copy of "king, etc." Sounds like an interesting read. Will get around to it, but it's on my list.

Look forward to other suggestions.
 
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