@Glassguy
Well i agree on everything you said, a friend of her told me (just to stop me from getting back) that she had alot of different boys over... Even yesterday
What should I do? Pick up the phone and tell her why im leaving and listen to 200 different excuses?
What red pill?
What benefit does it do for YOU to contact her at all at this point? She is not your GF and never will be so why do you care what she does or who she bangs?
What do you mean you're "leaving"? What are you leaving? The friend zone? You should have already left that.
She can tell you anything she wants. She doesnt owe you anything.
You are BLUE PILL- You are needy, you chase, you give free validation, you do nice things expecting to get something in return and dont and you make excuses for a chick treating you poorly.
BLUE PILL men do not see the world for what it is really worth. They believe in the true love Disney fantasies. They think as long as the prove their love to a woman and chase her, she will come around. They constantly badger women to go out with them even though the woman has low interest in the man at best. The are also called BETAS on this forum. They are a constant source of non sexual attention and validation for women who are not sexually involved with them. The women they orbit know they can have this man AT ANY time they please and that makes them lose attraction for these types of men.
RED PILL men see the world for what it really is, mainly through getting burned by women several times. They realize that actions speak louder than words, women are never owned but are rather borrowed, we do not become loyal to ONE woman until she proves over time that she is worth it. We have high self value and we do not go out of our way to do things for women that are not taking care of our needs. When women provide resistance and do not make it easy to get them out on dates/hang out, we shift our attention to another woman that we are talking to that does make it easy.
RED PILL men see the world for what it is worth, without the Disney fantasy love storied glasses. We look out for ourselves and our needs first and foremost, which ATTRACTS women.
BLUE PILL men live in a world of
blissful ignorance of illusion, meaning they live in these fairy tale type fantasy worlds.
BLUE PILL men think that a woman is "THE ONE".
RED PILL men live under a knowledgeable world based on bitter truths because we see things and accept things for what they truly are.......we have the freedom to do whatever we wish to constantly self improve ourselves and also do what is best for us first and foremost. A true red pill man will be talking to many different women, banging several of them (plates) and constantly screening out the lays and fwb's from the potential LTR candidates. Red Pill men will never jump into a relationship based on their wanting a relationship, rather because the woman has promoted wanting to be exclusive and after the red pill man has screened the woman to the point of her passing the tests.
RED PILL men know that no woman is THE ONE because all women are prone to lie, cheat, etc etc. All women. Including the one that you are tied up with in your little fantasy. They can ALL be here today and gone tomorrow if something they think better catches their eye. I dont care if she has been married for 10 years and has an absolute great lifestyle. Those types of women actually approach us RED PILL men all the time. How we act upon it is our choice. But we have choices and abundance.
Stop being so needy, clingy and desperate. Stop giving this girl and any other woman your valuable time if she isnt investing in taking care of your needs as well (sex).
It seems very simple and it is. You need to start dating multiple women, screen them, go after what you want (dates and sex) and if they do not go along it means they have low interest and you stop talking to them and giving them your attention, which is all they are after.
Its pretty simple. Whether you want to stay a blue pill man or start becoming a red pill man, the choice is yours and its nothing more than changing your mindset to 100% blue pill. The way you think, the way you carry yourself, how you interact with women. Its a total mindset.
You will never hear of a TRUE RED PILL guy that is banging 5 chicks in rotation, that are asking him for more time together, that are taking care of him sexually, that he wants to go back to being a RED PILL beta that is constantly getting flaked on, giving girls attention for free and getting nothing out of it, etc etc etc.
Now I am red pill. I still take girls out for drinks, dinner, etc. But there comes a time that she starts investing in me and what I want (sex) or I stop investing and pull out....meaning I stop contact with her. Period. I will walk away no problem because I have other plates to shift my attention to if this particular one does not want to do what it takes for me to keep investing in me. You see she must qualify herself to me, not me qualify myself to her.
I am out for me first and foremost. I do what makes me happy in life and I will not totally change for some woman who has the potential to stop communicating with me at the drop of the hat for little to no reason.
