Change for the Worse in the Air?

[ubercat]

Agreed just like I don't write off millenials because they re young. But as we say in agile "inspect and adapt". TTs done that and people thought his posts had value 360 times. anyway I've said my piece I ll leave you boys to it

 

[Desdinova]

Has anyone begun to get the sense that more and more, women are acting in ways that YOU KNOW are shooting themselves in their feet by acting directly opposite to their own innate interests? As in they are running away from us men who stand up to them when they lob tests at us and actually seeking out less assertive, more compliant men as partners?

I do see it, but it's not because they're actually wanting beta men.

The problem is entitlement. Women will ditch a man they're actually attracted to because they've been convinced (by society, their friends, or their family) that they can get BETTER. A man who puts his foot down with his woman will NOT win over her friends or family. They'll tell her 5hit like "well, MY boyfriend lets me (insert disrespectful behaviour here), so why shouldn't YOU be able to?" In the end, the woman will want her masculine man AND be able to do anything she pleases. They don't realize that the two do NOT go hand-in-hand, and never will.

In the end, the woman ditches a man she is genuinely attracted to in hopes that there's still a bigger, better deal out there. Having a stallion isn't good enough. She'll climb to the top of many mountains, searching for the golden unicorn that her friends and family told her exists. Instead, all she finds is dirt and rocks, and maybe the occasional goat.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

The older I get, the more I realize that women are so lazy these days. Just the overall effort they give versus their expectations is what frustrates me the most. It's pathetic.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Desdinova: I'll give an example. I was just dating this woman, 24 year old hb7, no relationship but sex and nights out on town...who came over to my crib one day after work. We were all over each other on my couch and she was like "my nails are gross, I need to get them done. I think you should pay for them."

Lol I looked at her and asked her if the shop accepts chewing gum? And she laughed but I could tell it was kinda serious in her head...so she goes "no, I think if a guys my man he should pay for my nails and hair to get done regularly." I asked "what does your man get in return?" And I swear to God it was the most blank face ever as if she had to ponder a 30 point question on the SATs. She eventually says "Meeee" with a smile and I immediately changed the subject bc I knew this train was going no where.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

I asked "what does your man get in return?" And I swear to God it was the most blank face ever as if she had to ponder a 30 point question on the SATs. She eventually says "Meeee" with a smile .

lol

 

[FCB]

Desdinova: I'll give an example. I was just dating this woman, 24 year old hb7, no relationship but sex and nights out on town...who came over to my crib one day after work. We were all over each other on my couch and she was like "my nails are gross, I need to get them done. I think you should pay for them."

Lol I looked at her and asked her if the shop accepts chewing gum? And she laughed but I could tell it was kinda serious in her head...so she goes "no, I think if a guys my man he should pay for my nails and hair to get done regularly." I asked "what does your man get in return?" And I swear to God it was the most blank face ever as if she had to ponder a 30 point question on the SATs. She eventually says "Meeee" with a smile and I immediately changed the subject bc I knew this train was going no where.

I had a girl I was dating that was the best sex I've ever had by far. I was working a late shift until 11 or 1am many nights and she was coming over like 3-4 days of the week to have sex, sleep over and then leave. Problem is she wasn't offering much of anything else, her body was great, she had beautiful green eyes with a really unique and beautful look but she wasn't really going anywhere with her life and didn't offer any interesting conversation or much past having the highest sex drive an amazing ass and the willingness to come over whenever I wanted. Eventually she pushed for doing more other then sex and wanted me to pay for things etc. but basically I wasn't interested past what we had, she jokingly/but serious asked me to marry her and got pissed off when I balked. Many women just think having sex is enough, not feminists mind you but many women think they can just show up, but she was also getting marathon sex she couldn't get from any random and a place to stay (she was living with her dad), she said she loved me over the phone drunk one night and I just ignored her and changed the subject and I soft nexted her. Obviously missed the sex after but you once you give up the control to that ass, you're done one way or the other.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Evolutionarily, and traditionally, we know that women are more attracted to confident men, and women know that "if you don't stand up to her, you won't stand up for her," so they desire assertive men.

Has anyone begun to get the sense that more and more, women are acting in ways that YOU KNOW are shooting themselves in their feet by acting directly opposite to their own innate interests? As in they are running away from us men who stand up to them when they lob tests at us and actually seeking out less assertive, more compliant men as partners?

I see them settling for these men who seemingly will tolerate excuses, will let them have their ways, and will give an inch, and it's so directly opposite their own interests because they're less attracted to these men. Have women just completely lost all sense of what drives them sexually?

Thoughts?

You are just describing the Wall. Alpha fvcks , beta bucks. There is no mystery.

 

[zekko]

Women are looking at getting the most given to them for the least amount of work on their part, pure and simple.... They look at it as two broad choices, A and B, and pick A because it's less work.

Choice A:
- Be with a man who is easy on them and doesn't hold them accountable for their bu||$hit
- Suck him dry in every way possible (mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, etc)
- Maybe have some kids
- Leave him to rot and cash out in divorce court
- Blame everything on him
- Go find a new man and start the process over again

Lefty has it right, and it ties in with what Tictac was saying. It's the easy way out for the woman to pick Choice A, not only because it's less work, but let's face it, there ARE tangible benefits for her to make this choice. I know many women who have repeated this process over and over, and in doing so they have set up multiple income streams for themselves.

It's kind of like those women who like to have a lot of kids so they get plenty of welfare and government support, except in this case they are draining several gullible men. Okay, maybe this isn't the most rewarding way of life for these types from a "traditional" or "evolutionary" standpoint, but obviously they are getting rewarded for it in a monetary sense.

 

[dustmuffin]

I do see it, but it's not because they're actually wanting beta men.

The problem is entitlement. Women will ditch a man they're actually attracted to because they've been convinced (by society, their friends, or their family) that they can get BETTER. A man who puts his foot down with his woman will NOT win over her friends or family. They'll tell her 5hit like "well, MY boyfriend lets me (insert disrespectful behaviour here), so why shouldn't YOU be able to?" In the end, the woman will want her masculine man AND be able to do anything she pleases. They don't realize that the two do NOT go hand-in-hand, and never will.

In the end, the woman ditches a man she is genuinely attracted to in hopes that there's still a bigger, better deal out there. Having a stallion isn't good enough. She'll climb to the top of many mountains, searching for the golden unicorn that her friends and family told her exists. Instead, all she finds is dirt and rocks, and maybe the occasional goat.

Women are their worst enemies. This post is a good example of how women can't think for the selves and have to be lead either by you the feminine herd or family. You have to be if better value than the rest.