"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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chances are you overestimate your own looks

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and underestimate the looks of other men, this mainly applies to the face, but also the physique

It is a self protecting mechanism. You have probably wondered, how some women date guys who are not that attractive in your eyes, how so many women are dating mehhh guys, you cry, when in reality, you are underestimating their looks and sexual appeal, and massively overestimating yours.

What you may find attractive or unattractive in other man, is not always what a woman will find attractive. Some women prefer men of a particular race, skin color, facial features, etc, these men may not be "good looking" by your standards or society's

Many people in the misc for example, believe they are sexy and good looking, when in reality they are just average faggots who got into lifting to compensate for their failed pasts
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This post is full of confusion. You are implying everyone has different taste which is true. But say we overestimate our looks and underestimate other mens looks. Which comes down to everyone has different taste. If a women likes a guy who has green eyes but the rest of his face is jacked or average doesn't mean the guy is good looking
 
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