"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chance for a scholarship?

ChrizZ

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Hi,
I´m 17 years old and wanna go to college in the US. The problem is my grades aren´t that great, but I´m pretty good at golf. My question is if it is hard to get a golf scholarship for a "good" college in the US. Since college can be really expensive how much financial aid will I get for a golf scholarship?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You might do best to start at a junior college in a place where living arrangements are affordable, and then try out for the team. If you make it, great, you might get a scholarship then, but you still get the college credits under your belt either way, which is what counts.

You are not in the US now, right? Do you have a green card or work authorization? The last I checked, a student visa will allow you to work at an on-campus job if you don't have a green card.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You might do best to start at a junior college in a place where living arrangements are affordable, and then try out for the team. If you make it, great, you might get a scholarship then, but you still get the college credits under your belt either way, which is what counts.

You are not in the US now, right? Do you have a green card or work authorization? The last I checked, a student visa will allow you to work at an on-campus job if you don't have a green card.
Right now I´m working together with a scholarship organisation that helps foreign students to get scholarships for sports, but only for big colleges. I also wanna get a major in business, but I can´t get that at a junior college and they don´t really give real sport scholarships and it´s still pretty expensive isn´t it? I live in Germany right now and don´t have a work authorization or green card for the US. I don´t get how most students go to college although it´s really expensive. Isn´t it like 25-30k a year without scholarships?
 

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Isn´t it like 25-30k a year without scholarships?

It can be if you go to a private school or pay nonresident tuition for four years.

But junior college is only about $1000 a semester. For the first two years of your four-year business degree, you have to take basic general studies courses that are the same at junior college, only cheaper.

International students unfortunately get screwed out of resident tuition rates. If you could get a green card and live here for six months beforehand, then you would qualify as a resident, which cuts tuition by about half. But I realize that is not easy to do; all the international students I knew came from wealthy families who paid their way.
 

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you straight? i thought all the german dudes were heading to the former soviet union these days? i see enough of them and the dutch boarding klm flights headed east. i think all of europe and the uk is heading that direction these days.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sparky0000 said:
you straight? i thought all the german dudes were heading to the former soviet union these days? i see enough of them and the dutch boarding klm flights headed east. i think all of europe and the uk is heading that direction these days.
Why should anyone go to college in Russia or other Eastern Europe countries?
 
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