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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AmazingTricks

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i'm going to listen to tag and try to plant the seed. i will be up again before the semester is over, so maybe if i roll with it for a visit or two, i can send her back home happy.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AmazingTricks

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AmazingTricks said:
i'm going to listen to tag and try to plant the seed. i will be up again before the semester is over, so maybe if i roll with it for a visit or two, i can send her back home happy.
here is what happened:
I went back, and there were some reports that she wasn't a virgin. This obviously made me less excited (after being reinvigorated) to hook up with this chick. Then she starts flirting with a friend of mine, and I rather see him get leg, so I just get even less interested. Then she starts hitting on other dudes, which pisses me off. Meanwhile, she's in my ear the whole time asking, nay, begging me to go upstairs with her and/or back to her room. Needless to say, I enjoyed this part. So anyway, I keep telling her later (read: maybe, later) and off she goes into the night. I stay at the party we're at and continue to spit game/plant seeds, but eventually I leave (got a couple bloomers, tho). After all the parties are done and alcohol is drunk, I give in and go back to her place at like 3 a.m. and she's hooking up with another dude. :rolleyes:
 

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Dude, you had her! I've made this mistake a few times. I've ignored my target or played it cool, but all that does is make her lose interest.

You may have not seen it as a mistake cuase it seemed like you weren't that interested. I wanted to post something before but I just saw this post, what i was going to say is that you don't need to ignore her anymore! You're in, all you gotta do is ACT and take her to her room.

But she probably thought you weren't interested anymore(especially if she's been drinking). This is one of the reasojns I don't really like to play the "mystery/hard to get" card that is talked about so much on ths board. I find that girls are pretty insecure too and if you ignore them they will move on. With all those options why wouldn't they? plus in your case, you moved away so you don't have to play that card anymore.

The bottom line: she wasn't gonna wait for you(especially at 3am and drunk). You shouldve made a move but you still have a chance. thats another topic.
 

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AmazingTricks said:
After all the parties are done and alcohol is drunk, I give in and go back to her place at like 3 a.m. and she's hooking up with another dude. :rolleyes:
that s really funny dude!

now you know that next time when a girl you want to fvck begs you to go up to her room, you should take her up on her offer, or you ll regret it.

Also, as far as sorority chicks: -if she s been in school and part of a sorority for at least 1 or 2 months, SHE IS NOT a virgin, no way in hell.
-when you walk into a side room at a party with a sorority girl and you only make out with her, you know you re doing something wrong. I ve known sorority chicks who would fvck 3 different guys at the same party. So if you can isolate her, nothing should stop you from hitting it, especially not her half-hearted ASD

hope you have better luck with these sorority sluts in the future!
 

tsmith2334

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drak_ool said:
Also, as far as sorority chicks: -if she s been in school and part of a sorority for at least 1 or 2 months, SHE IS NOT a virgin, no way in hell.
-when you walk into a side room at a party with a sorority girl and you only make out with her, you know you re doing something wrong. I ve known sorority chicks who would fvck 3 different guys at the same party. So if you can isolate her, nothing should stop you from hitting it, especially not her half-hearted ASD

hope you have better luck with these sorority sluts in the future!
Lol you have to admit that is a stereotype

not saying it isn't mostly true but come on
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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tsmith2334 said:
Lol you have to admit that is a stereotype

not saying it isn't mostly true but come on
i see you re from NC. That s a funny coincidence cuz i ve only been there once, on a road trip to wake forest for their pledge weekend 3 years ago... lots of sorority sluts over there

ya, you re right, some sorority girls are virgins: the extremely fat or extremely ugly ones. However, NO above average or even average looking sorority girl is a virgin in the U.S. And i don't think nobody here cares about the fat or ugly ones...
 

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AmazingTricks said:
I went back, and there were some reports that she wasn't a virgin.
There really ought to be some kind of government data base for this type of thing.

Because unless you have been hand-cuffed to the girl since puberty you have no way of knowing. Personally, I prefer a more experienced girl. Then she truly understands how great I am in bed compared to all the other crappy ****s she's had.
 
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