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Chameleon Effect (given by halo effect)

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What is the name of the phenomenon whereby one uses to mimic a person's behavior and way of acting?

Has it ever happened to you that someone joined your group and for some reason, everyone imitated his "little voices" or his ways of doing things, how he behaved, etc?

for example, I happened to see my sister behave in the same way as her husband, but not vice versa.

On google i found this

"The phenomenon you are referring to is called the "Chameleon Effect." It is a psychological phenomenon where people tend to mimic the behaviors, mannerisms, and speech patterns of those around them, often without even realizing it. This can include facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, and even the way someone walks or gestures"
 

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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