"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chameleon Effect (given by halo effect)

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What is the name of the phenomenon whereby one uses to mimic a person's behavior and way of acting?

Has it ever happened to you that someone joined your group and for some reason, everyone imitated his "little voices" or his ways of doing things, how he behaved, etc?

for example, I happened to see my sister behave in the same way as her husband, but not vice versa.

On google i found this

"The phenomenon you are referring to is called the "Chameleon Effect." It is a psychological phenomenon where people tend to mimic the behaviors, mannerisms, and speech patterns of those around them, often without even realizing it. This can include facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, and even the way someone walks or gestures"
 

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