Challenged myself to approach 10 sets at college today to prove a few things.

[ElStud]

Well I was at college and I challenged myself to approach 10 sets to prove whether I was right saying "If you approach 10 sets, are confident and just go for rapport with no lines, atleast 3 of those sets will go well". But lol really it wasn't much as to prove that, as it was for the sake of just approaching. But yeah, I think I've proved that very well here.

Most of the sets didn't go that great, but the ones that did go well went very well. Like for instance, there was this chick who was just sitting reading and I approached her. I asked what book she was reading, she told me and I said "Wow, that's pretty cool, you read books just for the sake of reading them". Then after that, she was extremely interested, even though I was just going for rapport and she had a boyfriend. I even heard the chick say when her boyfriend called "I'm hanging with my new friend Mike".

The other set that went pretty well was when I approached this group with 2 Saudi Arabian chicks and an Asian girl. Set started off kind of awkward, but eventually the girls became very interested and even started asking ME questions. Though they were very interested, when I tried to number close one of them, I didn't get it, but it was still a pretty good set.

Another one was when I approached these girls sitting down at a table. It didn't start off too well, but for some reason when I mentioned I was in band, she became really interested and even started asking if I knew this one dude from band.

Another thing I proved here was the fact that actually APPROACHING the girls is easy for me. This is because I don't care about interest or any of that crap. I just go up there and talk to the girls. If she's interested great, if she's not interested, it's not a big deal. I don't analyze WHY a particular set wasn't interested, I just move on to the next set.

But this is just more proof that you DON'T need all the lines and C+F and stuff to get interest from girls. If you approach confidently and just go for rapport and have a good convo, you'll probably get attraction.

 

[goodfoot]

Where's the number? Will you actually see these girls again?

 

[ElStud]

Where's the number? Will you actually see these girls again?

lol probably just around campus. And I didn't even try to number close any of them. What I'm probably gonna try and work on tommorow is isolation, because most sets are sets with multiple girls. Then if isolation goes well, I'm gonna try and go for the kiss. Point is, you go in their confident, with rapport and have a good convo, 3/10 of those sets are likely to go well.

 

[Clarky]

well done on approaching ten sets! you've proven you have the confidence to get to this first simple step now you just have to use that confidence to get to the next level.

How about befriending one group of girls? The process of going from stranger to very close friends will probably take about 3 or 4 months but there are many advantages to this such as other girls will see how close you are and will start getting curious, your female friends will speak highly of you to their friends thus getting them interested, also it will just be people to chill with in and out of college. I dunno if your friends from school are with you or not, but female friends do bring about alot of advantages.

 

[daygameguy]

lol probably just around campus. And I didn't even try to number close any of them. What I'm probably gonna try and work on tommorow is isolation, because most sets are sets with multiple girls. Then if isolation goes well, I'm gonna try and go for the kiss.

Slow down sailor! Just keep doing your normal approaches for a few weeks untill you are smooth and sharp on opening. Then begin closing. Then begin dating. Then begin intimacy and kiss closes. Take it in small chunks.. trust me.. you got nothing to prove to me or anyone on this forum.. but follow a sincere model for learning and getting better...dont be naive and OVER confident/ambitious.

 

[r0cky]

We might have our first restraining-order close tomorrow.

:crackup:

 

[ElStud]

We might have our first restraining-order close tomorrow.

Get out of here with that sh*t man. If you want to hate on somebody because you're girlfriend didn't give you head last night, do it somewhere else. Don't troll my topic and hate on me, just because you see I'm improving and in the end, will probably have success you wish you had. Funny you talk crap to a guy who has 10x the number of FR's you do.

 

[DonGorgon]

Where's the number? Will you actually see these girls again?

See thats the thing women get approached all day every day and have simple empty interactions with desperate men all day long only a few of those men survive long enough to get a F out of them..... The days of feeling proud cause you made small talk are over , getting number means nothing only an actual date and a kiss close can be seen as an accomplishment.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Funny you talk crap to a guy who has 10x the number of FR's you do.

True. You have more FRs than me, but in my FRs I get laid or at least come to some sort of meaningful realization. If I was like you and posted about every little interaction I had with a female, I'd never leave my computer. I'd be on SoSuave all day, typing the dialogue of meaningless interactions.

 

[sprint]

do you even know what interest is?

I think you're using the word a little too loosely. Just because a girl talks to you does NOT mean she is interested. She's just being polite. If a girl is interested you will get a number and when you call you will get a response that is at least somewhat favorable to you.

 

[TheBaconator]

do you even know what interest is?

I think you're using the word a little too loosely. Just because a girl talks to you does NOT mean she is interested. She's just being polite. If a girl is interested you will get a number and when you call you will get a response that is at least somewhat favorable to you.

Don't even bother. He will just call you a hater and gloat about all the "success" he gets. This guy gets weak at the knees when a chick high fives him.

 

[wjh]

Slow down sailor! Just keep doing your normal approaches for a few weeks untill you are smooth and sharp on opening. Then begin closing. Then begin dating. Then begin intimacy and kiss closes. Take it in small chunks.. trust me.. you got nothing to prove to me or anyone on this forum.. but follow a sincere model for learning and getting better...dont be naive and OVER confident/ambitious.

I prefer the crash and burn method

 

[daygameguy]

DUDE. you are freaking 18 yr old man... i mean... haven't you joined a fraternity or something... make some cool guy friends who swim and work out and party a lot... they'll increase your social value... now I personally can't do that because i am a grad student.. but i am sure you can. Why are you wasting your time starting conversations when you can easily get wasted and get laid in undergrad parties and other social events.

 

[ElStud]

Haha, man you guys hating are really sad. Anyway, anyone hating will be introduced to my ignore list, because ESPECIALLY with the 10 post limits I don't have time to be arguing with haters. But please do get out of my topic with that sh*t. Go back to kindergarden with that stuff. It's funny how the guys who actually go out and improve are hated and the guys who sit on their keyboards all day or just plain sip the hatorade, are praised. REAL DJ's have no reason to talk sh*t and talk about how much better their game is. That's freaking insecure.

So if you got nothing good or ontopic to say, shut it. If you want to talk sh*t, you will be ignored. If you want to be a prick, you will be ignored. If you want to brag about how good your game is, you will be ignored. This topic is not about that.

So sprint, MikeYikes, rocky and the Fakenator, welcome to my ignore list.

Slow down sailor! Just keep doing your normal approaches for a few weeks untill you are smooth and sharp on opening. Then begin closing. Then begin dating. Then begin intimacy and kiss closes. Take it in small chunks.. trust me.. you got nothing to prove to me or anyone on this forum.. but follow a sincere model for learning and getting better...dont be naive and OVER confident/ambitious.

I have sucessfully closed before, look down my list of FR's to see. But yeah, today was just approaching for the sake of practicing game. It's cause I've closed before that I think that numbers don't mean much anymore because girls flake. So basically I'd rather kiss close first and if that goes well, I go for the number.

DUDE. you are freaking 18 yr old man... i mean... haven't you joined a fraternity or something... make some cool guy friends who swim and work out and party a lot... they'll increase your social value... now I personally can't do that because i am a grad student.. but i am sure you can. Why are you wasting your time starting conversations when you can easily get wasted and get laid in undergrad parties and other social events.

One word man, practice. And getting wasted isn't my thing, I'd rather just go up to a girl and talk to her and escalate. I'm not desperate enough to get laid to have to get wasted to do it. And if you're confident, you don't need social value. I think I proved this in this post. I had zero social value whatsoever and got 3 sets very interested.

 

[goodfoot]

I'm confused. Did you attempt to kiss close 10 girls?

 

[Flabbergasped?]

I have sucessfully closed before, look down my list of FR's to see. But yeah, today was just approaching for the sake of practicing game. It's cause I've closed before that I think that numbers don't mean much anymore because girls flake. So basically I'd rather kiss close first and if that goes well, I go for the number.


One word man, practice. And getting wasted isn't my thing, I'd rather just go up to a girl and talk to her and escalate. I'm not desperate enough to get laid to have to get wasted to do it. And if you're confident, you don't need social value. I think I proved this in this post. I had zero social value whatsoever and got 3 sets very interested.

What bothers me about you is that your practices are almost useless.

Normally, when someone opens a bunch of sets a day just for the sake of it, it's so they can get rid of their AA and get comfy around women. It's a great skill. However, it's vastly insufficient to #closing or *closing.

Like someone said, in college, these girls get approached by guys all the time. Both nerdy AFCs and guys who actually have game/are attractive: the playboys, athletes, frat guys, rich guys, etc. I'm not saying you need to be one of those things to get action, but that's your competition. You're not standing out by telling a girl, "wow, you read, that's great!"

My advice is, try to take every interaction as far as possible. Try to do insta-dates, try to talk sexual, try to engage their imagination. Everything you can do to take the girl in an emotional rollercoaster. Go for the close during this. If she rejects you, figure out why and adjust accordingly. If your sex talk came on too strong, try to be more subtle. If she saw you as a friend, kino more and try to be more of a mystery. Making such gradual improvements is what will give you better success.

What will not give you success is approaching 15 sets a day "without caring about the number, just for practice," talking to them for five minutes, ditching the set without taking it to its full conclusion, and coming on here to tell us "yay, this girl told her boyfriend she met me!"

College is a great place for practicing your sex game too. Being confident that you can please a woman is important, and that comes through experience. Thankfully, at college/frat parties, girls are loose, so it will give you a chance to bang some floozies so you get some notches under your belt.

I suggest you join a frat, not for the booze or the girls, but for the friendship and activities. Look into it if you haven't, they're very rewarding.

 

[Prodigy746]

DUDE. you are freaking 18 yr old man... i mean... haven't you joined a fraternity or something... make some cool guy friends who swim and work out and party a lot... they'll increase your social value... now I personally can't do that because i am a grad student.. but i am sure you can. Why are you wasting your time starting conversations when you can easily get wasted and get laid in undergrad parties and other social events.

Thats exactly what i tried to tell him but got bashed by him. You cant help this kid man...

Haha, man you guys hating are really sad. Anyway, anyone hating will be introduced to my ignore list, because ESPECIALLY with the 10 post limits I don't have time to be arguing with haters. But please do get out of my topic with that sh*t. Go back to kindergarden with that stuff. It's funny how the guys who actually go out and improve are hated and the guys who sit on their keyboards all day or just plain sip the hatorade, are praised. REAL DJ's have no reason to talk sh*t and talk about how much better their game is. That's freaking insecure.

Pretty soon you will have everyone on ignore list. People are not bashing you they are trying to help you!!! Why cant you understand that, everyone is telling you the same thing for a reason. Why even post on this forum if you are not gonna take any advice might as well continue doing what you are doing without posting.

 

[alphamailman]

This is my 1st week at my new school as well. Getting new numbers has been easy and all. The approaching does help me mentally with confidence. Most are the same, a lot of shallow "women" on and right off campus, therefore most women I close and check out don't mean sh!t to me. I'm choosing to invest my time wisely, I've learned from the mistakes, I'll make worthy friends, workout, I've already joined the MMA club (which was an original goal), study. Basically further myself, not worry about it anymore.

 

[TheBaconator]

What will not give you success is approaching 15 sets a day "without caring about the number, just for practice," talking to them for five minutes, ditching the set without taking it to its full conclusion, and coming on here to tell us "yay, this girl told her boyfriend she met me!"


Watch out, you will be next on his ignored list.

Seriously, this guy doesn't do anything but come on here and talk about everyday interactions and build them up like he's got amazing interest from these girls. I mean come on, the GF told her BF that she has a new friend and he took this as "very interested". He needs to learn that every time a woman is polite or friendly to him doesn't mean she's attracted to him. He's such an ego maniac.

 

[r0cky]

To the author of the thread. Take it easy man I dont see much hating going on here just constructive critiscism. If someone posts something that is useless to you dont respond to him, thats it. Theres no need to get all defensive. Doing so is very beta. So just get over yourself.