"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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challenge: come up with the next line of text

thebiglimp

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ok, so i got this hb10 on tinder. the best one i've been swiped for so far. i'm gonna treat this one like a landmind, and tread with caution.

my initial text: (reference to her 'about' which says that she may either lie or tell the truth at the same time) what you say may be a paradox but your beauty is undoubtable.

her: oooh thank you ^ ^

what should my next line be? should i go with another joke or straight for the small talk?

i got 'np. me on the other hand, always try to tell the truth. :) what do you do here?', 'just an honest observation.', 'so what's a lie that you told today? please don't say that you don't exist :D' something along that line.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Starwolf

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"i'll tell you a secret tho, I always tell lies."
 

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"there's lots of beautiful girls on tinder though, so I look for a chick who's got other qualities too (honesty being one of them)"

if she's that hot, disqualify her as the example above shows. she'll reply trying to prove herself as honest/trustworthy and that sets a frame of her chasing you instead of the other way around. And that's how you need it to be if you wanna bang her
 
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