That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Did you know you have the freedom to not read his threads?Alle_Gory said:Is it just me, or does anyone else want to lock this guy's threads?
Yes of course. But to me it's usually very low brow and shock material that you would expect from tabloids. Where is the in depth reporting and quality videos and reading? Or is this simply a symptom of our dumbed down culture and unwillingness to pay for quality. I mean look at what passes for "news" on television now.joverby said:Everything might not be true sure; but most his stuff is and raises awareness. The government really isn't your best buddy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I like his thread too but I think that if the gov is not your best buddy the elitès are not your friends at all.joverby said:I actually like a lot of his threads personally. Everything might not be true sure; but most his stuff is and raises awareness. The government really isn't your best buddy.
He also has the freedom to disagree or critique his threads and do it publicly.r0cky said:Did you know you have the freedom to not read his threads?