"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cellphone Questions

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I'm thinking about getting a new cellphone. I have a very cheap plan through AT&T that I want to keep. I know I can go to Wal-Mart and get me the appropriate phone and keep the plan. If I do this, will my old phone still work?

I have a football ticket in my Google Digital Wallet on my old phone. Will I still be able to access it on the new phone? On the old phone? Do you have to be "logged in" to use Google Wallet?

The other thing is less important, but something I've considered. If I get a better quality phone, can I still keep my old cheap, crappy plan? Or is each phone tied to its own plan somehow?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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