"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cell phones make getting numbers too easy?

PRMoon

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In this our communication age, and the cell phone is the norm. I'm not sure how many numbers I've gotten and often later deleted from my phone but I know that number is very high.

I didn't really notice how often I do it but if I'm vibing off a girl I almost always snatch their phone and put my number in and call myself. F*ck now days I have catchy ring back tones for them to listen to on speaker (a canned but in her eyes "cute" guesture) while it's dialing up.

I use to preach a number exchange policy where you sugesst you swap numbers and walk them through the steps but man, nowdays it's so much easier to pick their pocket and the thing yourself.

Has anybody else noticed this? I mean there's no "fear" in that at all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've never done the phone snatching thing (wtf?) but getting numbers from chicks these days is dead easy as they give them out like pedos handing out lollies in front of a primary school. It's about as easy as adding "friends" on Facebook or MySpace.
 

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I feel the same way. However, it seems like the ones with a high IL usually shoot me a text message of some kind within 24 hours of trading cell #'s. Not always, but it happens quite a bit. It has been a good way for me to separate the #'s that might actually lead to sex from the "tire kickers".
 

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Yep way too easy. I just did this twice today at the pool to girls i randomly picked out to one of the lifeguard i was talking to. His exact words were "No f*ckin way bro!"... true story.

Anyway I'm telling you guys, dig deep for some balls and try this one. It's so easy after building just a little repor with to make it happen. Like shooting fish in a barrel on the real.
 
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