"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cell Phone World (Steve Cutts Animation)
- Thread starter bigneil
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Those last 2 screenshots of the happy/sad girl remind me of a girl I dated. We had gone to the lake and I got very sick(lol, wasn't from the alcohol either, only had 2). On the way home she went on and on how I ruined her day and she didn't enjoy any of it. Before we got home she had posted a lake selfie on her facebook saying how awesome her day was and she had a blast. Facebook should be called faKebook. There are a lot of unhappy people trying to portray an image.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I've never understood the whole pretending to be having a great time thing on social media. If I'm not having a good time I generally do not hide it. I certainly won't pretend I'm having a good time instead... also I find girls that are constantly broadcasting off putting..