"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Cell Phone Voyeurism

Juan_Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2001
Messages
1,103
Reaction score
28
What do you think of the new law curbing this practice? Personally, if someone was snapping shots of me, I would be flattered at the very worst.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

diablo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 2, 2004
Messages
4,678
Reaction score
9
Location
Louisiana, USA
Can you post a link to this law, and tell us a little more about it? I for one have absolutely no idea of what you're talking about.
 

quest

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2003
Messages
1,176
Reaction score
0
juan man, I am not familiar with the law either.
BUT you're at a busy beach on a hot day. You'll no doubt see a young boy or girl in the nude. drying off after a swim in the beach.

*SNAP*

pedophile has stolen an image of that child and can do as he pleases with it. Not only is it disgusting, it should be illegal.

Taking a snap with a phone is much more discreet then a camera. -unless its with one of those super spy cameras diablo has and you can be out on a boat... i'm rambling and off topic.

Theres alot of problems with camera phones. But theres a lot of problems with alot of things.

unfortunantly, a law won't stop anyone who wants to violate that law.
 

Stud

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 20, 2005
Messages
287
Reaction score
5
if asking for pictures of girls boobs via cameraphone is wrong i dont wanna be right.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

diplomatic_lies

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2002
Messages
4,366
Reaction score
8
I agree with the law. It isn't right to snap photos of people, especially if the photo is to be used for nefarious purposes. The idea of some pedofilia going to the swimming pool and taking shots of kids in the showering room isn't really my cup of tea.
 
Top