"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cell Phone Revealations

COD

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Back in the day it was "you are what you drive", then it was "you are what you eat...............today its you are what you talk into (cell phones).

Cell phones are better than the Myers briggs personality indicator tests. The phone is the primary contact for most people today. Our E-social skills are transacted through our cell phone at an alarming rapid rate. We text'd our friends, we send love flirts, people break up through texting, download music, view news clips, the list goes on and on.

There are so many different phones out there, people now have the option to choose a phone that suits their personality. You can read a lot about a person by their cell phone brand name, the accessories they have, their ringtones, how they wear their phone, and how much they use it. I seen this artsy hot actress wannabe with a bright red chocolate I tunes phone. I saw this lawyer lady with a soft pink v3 razr, etc. Look at a persons cell phone and you can ascertain what type you are dealing with. By listening to their ringtones you can find out what they are into and use as an instant opener.

A cell phone can also be a great wingman.........pics for social proof, default pick up lines or advice from a friend. Video for instructional purposes.....training in the field, booty calls at a touch of a button, a must have in any club for finding friends in a noisy atmosphere. A cell phone is a status symbol of who you are. Don't under-estimate the power of having a cell phone........its the quickest way to get a chics # without asking.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obsidian

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you shouldn't put so much faith in a mechanical tool
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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afc_2_dj

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COD said:
You can read a lot about a person by their cell phone brand name, the accessories they have, their ringtones, how they wear their phone,
Hmm, I don't agree with that at all. Not everyone spends there life and life savings downloading ringtones/screensavers/cr*p/etc.

My sister has an old phone, its no reflection on her, she simply has no need for a contract and hence upgrades, I have a fairly new phone and contract cos I tend to use the features like 3G. It has nothing to do with us as a person, its a tool nothing more.

People need to grow out of this habit of juding who a person is by what they own.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Here's something interesting, women tend to be more interested in the fact that I seldom (if ever) carry a cell phone. When they give me their number they ask for a phone to punch it into and I give them a pen and a napkin. They're amazed that I'm not tethered to the thing like everyone else while I'm out. I tell them that I'm interested in talking to the person I'm with at the time and would rather not be interrupted by a telephone call. :up:
 

Bonhomme

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Ha! Good one, Francisco.

I usually have mine on me, but put it on vibrate when I'm out -- but most of the venues I go to are so damned loud I'd not be able to hear it ring anyway.
 
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