"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cell phone number?

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A lot of girls dont have home phones and only use a cell phone. but good job on getting those numbers, now just gotta make sure they arent flakes
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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“Susie, do you know your numbers?” the teacher asks.“Yup,” she says. “My dad taught me.”“What comes after three?”“Four,” Susie answers.“Great. And tell me what number comes after six?”“Seven.”“Excellent,” Susie’s teacher says. “Your dad did a good job. Now, what’s after ten?”“Jack.”




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My new favorite thing on SoSuave is people replying seriously to a thread that is 13 years old, as if the original people are going to read it.

It raises a good point, though. Some advice that still gets floated around is so incredibly dated, and you need to know what to use and what to adapt for modern times.

The first time I ever read any kind of dating advice, it was David Deangelo Double Your Dating. I was 19 or 20 and in college. The line he told you to use was, just as you're walking away from a girl, "hey, do you have email?"

Well, in 2004, of course everyone had email. Imagine if I asked that! Yet there are still some poor kids who find SoSuave, read an old article, then go up to a girl at a bar and say, "can I get your HOME phone number"

Haha. Good grief.
 
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