"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cedar Point is a GREAT place to approach(FR)

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Well i was at cedar point two days ago and man alot of fine hoes anyways I did about 3 approaches and got couple numbers i think some of the conversation went like this:

This one was when we were on the line waiting for a ride.

ME:Hey do you know what time it is?

HB 10:No,but my friend does

ME:Oh well it feel likes its been years since we been waiting on this line

HB 10:*laughes*yeah it has

(This is when you start spitting game my friends)
ME:So what your name?

HB 10:( i forgot her name but lets just call her keyshia)/

ME :You got a sexy name

HB 10:thx,whats yours?

ME :Big daddy

HB 10:*laughs*,you funny

ME : I know

Well you get the drift the conversation last 1 hour since we where in line for awhile and her friend joined in too got both numbers :D

Well im too tired to write the other approaches but yeah guys confidence,****yness,good clothes,good attiude,sexy like myself gets hoes..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CP rocks! I go every summer. Your right it is a great place to approach. Any sorta event your having to stand in a line for is a good opportunity!
 

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Sandusky, Ohio. Everyone should go at least once. I have family near there and go up every summer.
 

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Hmm, I'll see if I can save up and go with friends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EVERYONE should go there the rides are fun and the girls man are hot,and its easy to approach because when your in line just talk to girls if any of you guys cant talk to a girl at cedar point,then f*ck YOU NEED HELP SERIOUSLY!

It shouldnt be hard to meet or talk to a girl at cedar point!

IF ANY GUY HERE CANT GET A GIRLS NUMBER AT CEDAR POINT OR CANT TALK TO ANY THEN GO GET HELP!

real talk..
 

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I get what you're saying but the overall approach wasn't that impressive looking at how you talk in my threads.
 

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To ElStud:

his conversation was completely natural, it's so simple really!
all he did was ask the time and the girl replied, then he used some DJ elements: a C+F remark, she laughed, then he asked a personal question (her name) and complimented it, then she asked his name, and he threw in more C+F.

you see, he didn't go off talking about random complicated stuff like do you like mcdonalds, or telling her a story about canada, while having JUST MET HER.
 

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GWA has a point. ElStud you'll find in situations like this that simplicity is key
 

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Haha, you think going there is fun. Try working there. one of the best summers of my life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice job

But you guys are arguing over dumb sh1t. Whether he got a # or not doesn't mean sh!t. It's only guys who are starting out that put so much emphasis on #s, until the realize how flakey it can be.

I hope you were escalating because nothing matters if you're not closing.

Good job nonetheless
 

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haha I bet! that sounds like a fun summer job. I was up there last week. My grandparents were telling me something about a girl being killed or maimed on a ride. Anyone else here that or know more?
 

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his conversation was completely natural, it's so simple really!
all he did was ask the time and the girl replied, then he used some DJ elements: a C+F remark, she laughed, then he asked a personal question (her name) and complimented it, then she asked his name, and he threw in more C+F.

you see, he didn't go off talking about random complicated stuff like do you like mcdonalds, or telling her a story about canada, while having JUST MET HER.
He didn't get the number that's all I know. So it's pretty much the same unless he's actually getting results. Besides, aren't you the guy who gives advice but never applies it? Yeah. I guess I'm bashing him because he comes into my threads acting like some master and then himself doesn't get results.

'Natural' or 'Logical' conversation doesn't matter. All I need to do to prove it, is mention the time I went up to a girl with "I bet your one of those type of girls who goes on one of those high rides and throws up like a pig" and got one girl to introduce me to her friends and show tons of interest and another group of girls to laugh. If you call that 'natural' conversation, you're an idiot, but guess what? It got the girls interested.
 

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ElStud said:
He didn't get the number that's all I know. So it's pretty much the same unless he's actually getting results. Besides, aren't you the guy who gives advice but never applies it? Yeah. I guess I'm bashing him because he comes into my threads acting like some master and then himself doesn't get results.

He did get the number...Two if I read that correctly. I don't see getting a number as being a good thing at an amusement park unless you and the HB live in the area. A lot of tourists frequent these spots so the best bet would be to close by the end of the day.
 

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Yes, but it took him an hour to do it. There's no reason it should've tooken him an hour to get one number. RSD makes doing something like that a lot easier. You just plow until you reach the hook point, hook point being where she's attracted. Once she's actually attracted you can start all that natural conversation, "Hey, how's it going?" crap, basically rapport. If I'd say one thing this dude is going for rapport way too fast. Within in hours time, the girl probably felt she trusted him enough, so she gave him and his friend the number. I'd like to see him go into a quick set, spit game and get out with the number. It's a safe bet he's not getting numbers consitantly. I think the girl must've already been attracted to or he had a good frame. I know from experience that most girls will just answer one word answers if you open with rapport and she's not already attracted.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ElStud said:
RSD makes doing something like that a lot easier. You just plow until you reach the hook point, hook point being where she's attracted.
Think you had got it confused, hook point is just to point where you're in the set. She wants you to stay more than she wants you to leave. That isn't to say she can't be attracted.
 

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viper why the hell are you dissing him you haven't even gotten a number yet
I'm not dissing him, I'm just saying dude probably doesn't constistantly get numbers. I'm just wondering why he waited so long to get the number. Back to the thread at hand, yes, Cedar Point probably is a good place to approach girls.
 

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Ehh, there's always that rumor that someone got killed. The year I worked there is was "people choking on their gum" on the Top Thrill Dragster.

Anyways, CP was where I came into my sexual prime. Also where I juggled two girls at the same time and had my first threesome.
 

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Shoot why did I come back to AL! I should have stayed and gotten a job! lol
 

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I googled accidents at the park. Of course there have been some but it didn't really seem like anything big. Things like asthma attacks and whiplash.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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