"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cave men/ barbaric men.

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Ok so I've been doing some research on the internet and real life scenarios of observing and experiencing these myself. Why the hell is it woman love the barbaric male? The one that will glare at her if she says something he doesn't like or worse beat the crap through her? I hope I don't get to much hate from this but I'll be the first to admit I HAD to punch a former girlfriend.. and when other woman found out they were all over me.. any explanations from more intelligent people here? Being a nice civilized beta doesn't work and being the overly dominant woman beating arsehole does. Look forward to your answers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Think back to the caveman days, even though we are in a civilized society now, women are still biologically programmed to be attracted to that alpha/dominant man.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Think back to the caveman days, even though we are in a civilized society now, women are still biologically programmed to be attracted to that alpha/dominant man.
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Not all women are attracted to men that beat them, biologically or otherwise.
Alpha traits, yes, woman beater, no so much lol. I don’t see a connection between the two either.
 
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AJ84 said:
Not all women are attracted to men that beat them, biologically or otherwise.
Alpha traits, yes, woman beater, no so much lol. I don’t see a connection between the two either.
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I didn't say anything about beating women, I said women are biologically attracted to alpha men.
 
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niceguytoalphamale said:
Ok so I've been doing some research on the internet and real life scenarios of observing and experiencing these myself. Why the hell is it woman love the barbaric male? The one that will glare at her if she says something he doesn't like or worse beat the crap through her? I hope I don't get to much hate from this but I'll be the first to admit I HAD to punch a former girlfriend.. and when other woman found out they were all over me.. any explanations from more intelligent people here? Being a nice civilized beta doesn't work and being the overly dominant woman beating arsehole does. Look forward to your answers.
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You HAD to? More like you arent in control of yourself unless she was being physically abusive. And if that is the case you arent carrying yourself properly. A woman should have the fear of God in her if she ever thought about hitting you.
 
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[QUOTE="A woman should have the fear of God in her if she ever thought about hitting you.[/QUOTE]

Man I though I was the only one who thought like that.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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[QUOTE="A woman should have the fear of God in her if she ever thought about hitting you.
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Man I though I was the only one who thought like that.....[/QUOTE]

Nope, I'm not saying it should be because you've hit her before or threatened her or screamed at her or did other physically violent things. You should carry yourself in a way that they KNOW you aren't to be fvcked with.
 
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Not all women are attracted to men that beat them, biologically or otherwise.
Alpha traits, yes, woman beater, no so much lol. I don’t see a connection between the two either.
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That's what you say now, roastie[/QUOTE]
 
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niceguytoalphamale said:
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Kinda doubtful on that tbh... but nevermind

The answer to your question lies in our past. Homo sapiens is 300,000 years old and "earlier models" range back even further. In all these years, we are talking 1 million plus, an aggressive and dominant male was key to survival. For the male and for the female whose offspring he protected.

Hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary programming won't fade in a blink of an eye. No matter how much "modern people" tell themselves that. And really the few thousand years that we have lived differently are really just that in the greater scheme of things: the blink of an eye.
 
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Totally doubtful of that. You lost control which means you failed the **** test hopefully permanently. And you could have ended up in Jail.

Do yourself a huge life favour. Buy the book crucial conversations and start learning how to manage your women.
 
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