Cause of lost contact?

[philo]

I met this girl who lives in my apartment complex and we really hit it off having a lot in common, hanging out, talking, getting to know each other, etc. I never made any kind of move on her or made it obvious that I really liked her. So months go by and one day I am drunk and out of my mind thinking about her and write her a letter of some sort can't really remember what I wrote or if it made sense but any way she never mentioned any thing about it and it was just kept unsaid. But we totally broke off contact weeks after that and its been like 6 months since i even seen or talked to her. I realize totally how stupid and AFC like this total situation was, luckily finding this website shortly after all this happened. Have I destroyed the possibility of any kind of relationship with this person? Is her perception of me totally doomed because of my igornace?
Thanks

 

[Mr. Fingers]

Nothing is impossible, philo.

But getting a girl to like you after this big a fu©k up is pretty damn near impossible! What was your drunk ass thinking when you wrote that letter?

Really think about this, man. Is it really worth the effort anyway? All the time and energy you would put into patching this up could be spent on fresher prospects. Collect the broken shards of your dignity and start pursuing other options! I have messed up like this before and the only time the girl has ever come back around was when she saw the new me, having the time of my life at a party, flirting with many girls. If you aim for anything here, make self-improvement the goal. Everything else will flow naturally!

The fact that you recognize your AFC ways is a start.
Read the DJ Bible, visit www.fastseduction.com for additional tips and sign up for David Deangelo's free mailbag at www.doubleyourdating.com. These are the tools that have changed my life for the better.

I hope they serve you just as well.

Best of luck to you my friend!

Mr. Fingers

 

[matius]

Mr. Fingers, did you read that e-book, 'Double Your Dating'...is it really worth the money? Or is it one of those things that you're better off not learning from like so much of the other information here?

 

[Mr. Fingers]

Yeah, I bought the DYD ebook. Great stuff, but I can't heartily recommend it considering the wealth of info you can find for free. David DeAngelo's mailbag actually taught me much more than the book itself. If you are interested in reading a backlog of these great emails (which I am sure you are) visit:

http://fastseduction.com/mailbag/

I also have a personal stash of older letters (TONS) if you are interested I can email them to you.

 

[Legend]

You could re-start things by bumping into her....say something like "we should catch up sometime". But its a lost cause....i say move on and dont repatch your relationship with her. It would be easier to start something with someone new. I'm currently losing touch with my girl, eh, shyt happens.