"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Caught of guard

Should I

  • Not loose the game and walk away with my pride

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  • Swallow my pride and soldier on

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  • See what happens and be her friend

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  • Stay friends and nothing more

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Joejoplay

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Gentleman Im just about to loose a major game

I'm not new to this I've always been able to sink the ball but I was caught of guard I took a girl home after meeting her at work everything was going good I sang her a song she was rubbing my leg and it was getting of to a great start but then it happened she serenaded me and I lost concentration got her to bed and and started hooking up with her then as it was about to happen I fell asleep on her **** me a thought as you know the next day the infamous words came to me. " let's just be friends" she says f*** f **** I think now I'm not giving up I don't ever get half way there I don't loose the game ever but how the **** do I get myself out of this **** I shouldn't be in the first place I need to break the friend zone I can't loose this at all

Any ideas gents
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Atom Smasher

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This is a period:
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Use it.

And yes, I am the grammar police.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
This is a period:
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Use it.

And yes, I am the grammar police.
Was just going to say this. Lose not loose, etc. You can't expect to get help if your post is the equivalent of a 1st grade writing assignment.

I would suggest using the search function to find threads similar to this. Search "friend zone"
 
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