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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Caught Her Lookin'

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Ok something has got to give here on what is going on with these babes.

Putting the Walmart lady aside for a moment I make a stop every now in then at another food store and there is one particular cashier in there I would say shes 20 a bit young for me but I wouldn't write her off if I knew she'd be game. Anyway, different times I have gone in there gone through her line and when I do I always ask how shes doing and the cutiest sounding voice I have ever heard comes out of her mouth it is so dam sexy too.

Now when I go through there she is very polite a bit more than customer service in my opinion it's like "oh how are you today"? type question instead of customer service question low key "how are you"? Well, yesterday I stopped in there and while I was strutting I looked over at the cashier area and didn't really know she was working and as I looked while strutting she was just locked on my every move and when she caught me looking she sort of looked away and blushed. After I got my stuff I went throught a faster line and was gone.

This is my first question is this young lady interested or just admiring an older stud wishing I was her dad?>chuckle or could it be more?

Now the other day I was at the post office and the Postal General is a lady. I have made small talk with her in the past but this time what she said really stood out. As I was leaving keep in mind it's a sunny day and she says "now you be careful out there now Ok? It wasn't your being just friendly customer service line. I had sensed that maybe she was trying to show interest and this was her way wanting to be my wife >chuckle.

Anyway, it's really hard to second guess stuff but what is it I am doing with these women? Is it my body lanugage or charm maybe thats got them taking notice or want? I do know this is a great confidence boost I need when I approach the Walmart lady whenever I catch her working and maybe my eye condition is turning these ladies on or something.


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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bro..don't want to be the pessimist..but its pretty hard to gauge interest level of women who work at customer service positions. Its their job to be nice..sometimes the natural flirt comes out of them..but, its first and foremost her job.

The only exception is when you become a regular. Take for example a waitress at a local bar you frequent often. Maybe she knows your favorite drink, knows you by first name, and the such. Its about the rapport you build outside the normal realm of her job description.

Becoming a regular and building that rapport is the best way to pu a woman that works in a service industry. Get to know her on a personal level. Call her by her first name. Let her know what you do for a living. Go in on a Friday and ask her what she does on her days off. Build a bridge and fish for those clues. Then ask for a date or the digits.

Build that rapport first. Because from what you are telling us now, I've had women doing that to me all day....nothing new...just sounds like you're over analyzing it a bit. Next time..take a lil action...good luck bro
 

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
Bro..don't want to be the pessimist..but its pretty hard to gauge interest level of women who work at customer service positions. Its their job to be nice..sometimes the natural flirt comes out of them..but, its first and foremost her job.

The only exception is when you become a regular. Take for example a waitress at a local bar you frequent often. Maybe she knows your favorite drink, knows you by first name, and the such. Its about the rapport you build outside the normal realm of her job description.

Becoming a regular and building that rapport is the best way to pu a woman that works in a service industry. Get to know her on a personal level. Call her by her first name. Let her know what you do for a living. Go in on a Friday and ask her what she does on her days off. Build a bridge and fish for those clues. Then ask for a date or the digits.

Build that rapport first. Because from what you are telling us now, I've had women doing that to me all day....nothing new...just sounds like you're over analyzing it a bit. Next time..take a lil action...good luck bro
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Ok that sounds good and I like your suggestion about building rapport this could be the biggest key to it all. Thanks for the reply.

LoneSilver :)
 

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LoneSilver, how old are you? I was going to tell you to "Go for it" with the 20 year old until you said maybe she thought of you as her dad. Are you that much older than her?

Anyway, there's only one way to find out the answer to your questions. I think you know what it is.
 

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Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
LoneSilver, how old are you? I was going to tell you to "Go for it" with the 20 year old until you said maybe she thought of you as her dad. Are you that much older than her?

Anyway, there's only one way to find out the answer to your questions. I think you know what it is.

Yeah way more like 25 years but hell I don't look my age I'm told and in good shape no pot belly a Richard Gere kind of guy look. And I guess there are girls that young who like older but I'm always wary as in shes looking for a sugar daddy but not always.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by LoneSilver
After I got my stuff I went throught a faster line...

Let's be honest with ourselves, here. You mean you went through a line that was far enough away that you wouldn't have to go through the oh-so-scary experience of having to...*gulp*...TALK TO A GIRL!!

When are you gonna learn, man? ;)

Go get 'em, gerbil king.
 

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Re: Re: Caught Her Lookin'

Originally posted by squirrels
Let's be honest with ourselves, here. You mean you went through a line that was far enough away that you wouldn't have to go through the oh-so-scary experience of having to...*gulp*...TALK TO A GIRL!!

When are you gonna learn, man? ;)

Go get 'em, gerbil king.
LOL!!!! Your funny and I'm a big animal lover I feed the Squirrels>chuckle but your right on as straight as that sounds but I was in a hurry but sometimes if I sense a lady is checking me out and a good vibe is coming from them I play hard to get or make out like I got things to do and when I do see them again they seem to be more friendlier and flirty.

Hell, maybe I am on to something here maybe I'll call it the "LoneSilver Gerbil King Don't Have Time But Next Time I Will Move">chuckle as this way I don't come off looking needy even though I'd like to dance with her right then and there.

LoneSilver :D
 
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