OK well I have been dating this girl for a couple months now. I live at school in a dorm, and I decided to sleep with her one night. Now I know it was risky, cause if we were caught, we both would have been expelled. But we weren't thinking that. Everything was fine until the next morning when her parents saw her running from my dorm and asked her where she slept last night and not to lie. So her parents found out that she slept with me, and lost all trust and respect for me as well as some for their daughter. They think that I'm immature for doing it. What do I do? Apologize to them? Send them a fruit basket for Easter to prove I'm mature? I guess something like this happens to all of us. Any advice?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Caught and her parents hate me!
- Thread starter OtraDia1
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Green Curse
Don Juan
your a guy and ya wanna sleep with ya girl i dont see how this makes you immature, personally i wouldnt suck up to her parents id be polite but i wouldnt do anything that makes them think that you feel guilty for doing it (oh and do you mean sex or just sleeping?)
id say be a man if tuely felt what you did was wrong then make it up to them but if you feel like i do and there is nothing wrong with it id stand by that however your biggest concern should be avoiding getting expelled!
id say be a man if tuely felt what you did was wrong then make it up to them but if you feel like i do and there is nothing wrong with it id stand by that however your biggest concern should be avoiding getting expelled!
write them a letter. if you try talking to them the whole time they're going to let whatever you say go through one ear and out the other. by writing a letter at least they dont have a chance to argue back.
start with a sincere apology, then talk about how you respect their opinion about their daughter and your reason for finding it ok to do what you did. then talk about how wonderful their daughter is, and that you're sorry for doing what you did. then maybe talk about how it is when you're a teenager with raging hormones and your point of view is different to where you feel responsible enough about it. then say you cant control their feelings about the situation but you hope they understand.
then be more careful next time
.
start with a sincere apology, then talk about how you respect their opinion about their daughter and your reason for finding it ok to do what you did. then talk about how wonderful their daughter is, and that you're sorry for doing what you did. then maybe talk about how it is when you're a teenager with raging hormones and your point of view is different to where you feel responsible enough about it. then say you cant control their feelings about the situation but you hope they understand.
then be more careful next time
.