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Catty Girls And Jealousy Plotlines

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When I get shy around girls, I sometimes deliberately or inadvertently try jealousy plotlines. That is, I will talk to another girl when she is around, to see what kind of reaction she gets.

On the one hand, it CAN make her jealous. Today, I was gaming a Russian girl seated next to me but then talked to another lady in a friendly way who was right next to us. The Russian gal gave me a very sharp look, at me then the older lady, then back at me.

The russian gal then said to the older lady, "so, how old are you?" The older lady volunteered the info, after hesitating, but I thought this was kind of rude! So yes, jealousy plotlines can work in this way.

However, I'm thinking it may have angered the Russian gal and she seems less friendly than before.

Any advice on how to deal with jealousy plotlines more skillfully, i.e., increasing attraction rather than generating resentment?
 

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Did you ever think she asked how old you were because she was implying that you must be young since you're just playing jealously games? Jealously games should not be done with that thought it mind. Jealousy plot lines just happen. You spark attraction from all women so you naturally make other women jealous. Trying to pull a jealousy card may work every once in awhile, but it is no means the end all solution.
 
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She didn't ask how old I was, she asked the other woman how old she was.

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Did you ever think she asked how old you were because she was implying that you must be young since you're just playing jealously games? Jealously games should not be done with that thought it mind. Jealousy plot lines just happen. You spark attraction from all women so you naturally make other women jealous. Trying to pull a jealousy card may work every once in awhile, but it is no means the end all solution.
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