"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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catching the moment, need your opinion please

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Guys, here is my problem.

I'm very good in manipulating people and women in general, I can make nearly anyone like me and have them express interest in me. Most girls who I meet agree to see me again after the first date; however, I usually fail to "close the deal". 5-6 times I was seeing girls in the past months ended up with disaster when I failed the close the deal. It usually goes like this:

First date goes perfectly well, so does the second and the third. At a certain point I see women express desire in "going further" but every time it happens I start having seconds thoughts, do I really want it ? why now, Im too tired etc.
So I ignore the signals, and it ALWAYS ends up with woman being angry at me and refusing to see me again, or even punishing me in a certain way. Conclusion is: women HATE being ignored when they signal they are ready for more than just talking and laughing and tend to humiliate men who do it to them.

Whats wrong with me ? every time it happens I feel sorry I did not catch the moment and screwed up, only to experience it again the next time I meet someone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thecurtainfalls

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I used to experience something similar.

I think it's mental. Are you afraid of failure? Or are you afraid of success? That's kind of what I had to figure out for myself years ago.

Either way, there's no denying: when a girl's letting it known she wants it and you puss out of making a move, for any reason... it creates a very uncomfortable situation for everyone.
 

vlf445

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I think you're probably like me. I recently realized I'm afraid of success.
 

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unbelievable, the girl who's signals I ignored last week is now completely ignoring me. I guess she is right too. I just did not feel like it that evening, I guess she is thinking Im a wussy now, she might be right too. Oh well, better luck next time
 

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It depends if the questions you ask yourself are “real” questions or lame excuses!!!

YOU & only YOU can answer that for yourself, not anyone on this board.

Women get offended when they are IOIing you and you don’t capitalise.
It’s only a known fact!

As someone said on this board....

The one who hesitates, masturbates!

I like it!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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