"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey guys,

i got some good stuff that i want to talk about here. i decided to just write down my thoughts so i've got sum suggestions and some questions.

first of i've had great succsess latley with all my interactions with chicks. right now i can create a really cool level of attraction with any chick i meet, thats easy. for the few of you that are just learning the attraction game, heres my advice, just think about this..something i read from a guy called juggler..

if you knew that it didnt matter what you did or how you act, you just knew that the chick your into WILL sleep with you and be completly into you, how would you LIKE the interaction to be with her...?
you would like it to be fun right? you would like to be in control and it would be relaxed and easy going, happy, cheerfull and sexual! you'd touch each other and you would both enjoy each others company...true?

anyways,
attraction isnt the big deal with girls, the pro's know this.. attraction is used as a tool to escualte the relationship to an intimate level...! the attraction is mearly the GREEN LIGHT!
jesus wept guyz, i get attracted to every single cute ass that woddles past me every day..and if attraction meant that much to me then id be an emotional wreck!!!
the truth is, chicks get just as attracted to differnt guyz as many times a day as we do!!! it comes and goes...

what really counts here guyz, with any interaction with women, is what we do when the green light is lit!!!
and heres the real deal,
he who esculates ejaculates!
its all good now its on, the candles of attraction are burning and shortly it will burn out just like it does with every other guy she gets attracted to for a bit unless you go higher and esculate! what we as don juans do is keep that candle burning, WE TURN UP THE HEAT!!! we must esculate the interaction to higher level both phisically and mentally...
esculation isnt done in big steps, esculation must be done BOTH SMOOTHLY AND SLOWLY. she likes you but you cant just ask her to marry you, she'd freak out.. so we slide up the levels of intimacy at a pace thats both natrual and comfortable.your nodding your head if your understanding this and its easy to agree but are you doing that..? are you really esculating when you should be? if you ever wonder why that other guy is getting it better, its becuase he used that attraction and ESCULATED FURTHER THAN YOU DID!!!

it doesnt matter how you esculate just as long as you do...you must...YOU MUST ESCULATE I TELL YOU!!!!
now, the easy part is knowing this and the other easy part is doing it.. the best part is learning when and how to do it. and the common points of esculation are easy to spot...
you know when you get all shyshy? thats right, if you get shy or dont want to do something cuz you a liccle bit nervous, then thats usually the time to do exactly what you want to do and esculate!!!! if she holds eye contact with you, then you up it up a bit and smile back...go speak to her have a little convo and show her that your a sexual being interested in her..the attraction is there, and she will say yes... grab her number before you leave.....ask her round...ESCULATE... snuggle up to her when you watch that film.. hold her hand when you go some where together!... go sit next to her if the seat is free.. kiss her on the cheeck when you hug... when you hug and it lasts really long look her in the eyes AND ....ooooh, esculate..
AAAAAAH, let me guess, these were just a few of the times when you got nervous and you used to you think, ooooooh, what if she doesnt like it.... or i duno if i should..you get a little shy maybe...
well, the good news is the attraction is already there, and the babysteps that you take when you esculate dont give her the option to humiliate you(which in its self is unlikley unless you insult them or they have a corncobb stuck up there ass) ...the bad news is it does give her the option to say no. and this is where you need to be the man you are and take the little risk. only a lttle one..

when your kissing, sofly...caress her peachy bum becuase it feels soooo good..start kissing her neck, give her those little butterfly kisses that everone loves!!! ESCULATE...ever step of the way you must be esculating!

BE THE THE GUY WHO ESCULATED FURTHER, ITS EASY!!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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