"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Catch chicks attention with a brief touch. ;)

Naughty Ninja

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If you’re out at a bar, club, etc. any crowded place and a chick seems to be alone as you’re walking up to the bar or past her you don’t have to say a word. As you walk by (if it’s CROWDED only) put your hand briefly on the small of their back (not on her azz) as if you’re trying to gently get to your destination and say “excuse me” while smiling and moving past or going to order your drink. You’ll notice some will look up at you and smile while letting out an almost ‘that felt kind of good’ sigh especially if they find you attractive, others will just simply move out of your way.

I’ve done that countless times and not in any PUA weirdo way. Actually just going to a certain part of the club or bar I was in. You’ll never have a problem with it unless you hold them like you’re trying to grope them. If the chick smiles back, looks into your eyes, flicks her hair quick etc. Then you simply say hello and go into a quick normal conversation while ordering your drink. Easy. No effort. Practice it at times. Don’t go overboard doing it at places. If the chick seems receptive to your touch and smiles etc. Start up a conversation. If not non-chalantly order your drink. Just take small steps like that and you may be surprised. No idiotic lines needed. ***Just make sure you actually leave your house to try it out.



Quick rant: The ten post limit svcks Donkey balls. / Rant.

***If she smiles at you as she turns back as she feels your hand on the small of her back, you can simply smile back and say something like: “Whoa. Hello!” (Or she smiles and says hello/hi you reply: Hello, Hello!) and start laughing and either continue to a quick conversation (Ask her name then look down at her heels/shoes and compliment her on them. Chicks eat that sh1t up for some reason.) or go to your destination if you can’t think of more to say right away. You may want to be in her line of sight afterwards to see if she checks you out and wave at her then approach if you still aren’t confident enough or couldn’t think of something to talk about at the first quick meet.(If the latter happens you’d better think of something like asking her name and telling her yours and approach…Not do nothing like a Nancy boy standing there bouncing your straw in your drink like you’re mentally masturbating.)

I've done it many times and in different countries too. Same thing with taking pics with chicks. My hand goes right on their waist at that point. And I've done it in Toronto too. Chicks can't complain if you're just being polite and trying to "get around them".
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Gambler

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Naughty Ninja said:
If you’re out at a bar, club, etc. any crowded place and a chick seems to be alone as you’re walking up to the bar or past her you don’t have to say a word. As you walk by (if it’s CROWDED only) put your hand briefly on the small of their back (not on her azz) as if you’re trying to gently get to your destination and say “excuse me” while smiling and moving past or going to order your drink. You’ll notice some will look up at you and smile while letting out an almost ‘that felt kind of good’ sigh especially if they find you attractive, others will just simply move out of your way.

I’ve done that countless times and not in any PUA weirdo way. Actually just going to a certain part of the club or bar I was in. You’ll never have a problem with it unless you hold them like you’re trying to grope them. If the chick smiles back, looks into your eyes, flicks her hair quick etc. Then you simply say hello and go into a quick normal conversation while ordering your drink. Easy. No effort. Practice it at times. Don’t go overboard doing it at places. If the chick seems receptive to your touch and smiles etc. Start up a conversation. If not non-chalantly order your drink. Just take small steps like that and you may be surprised. No idiotic lines needed. ***Just make sure you actually leave your house to try it out.
Gold to be found here, fellas.... GOLD.

Do "the touch" like you've known her your whole life. You're not patronizing her or coming across as needy. Nope, as a matter of fact, this little gift from you was almost incidental as you were going about your business. You're dressed nicely and have a confident smile. You're in control of your setting. She can sense your confidence from a mile away, and you are now on her radar.
 

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And like NN said, don't do it to every girl by the bar...especially if it is a small club. :crackup:
 

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Yeah, that's a good tactic that should be practiced. The guy who isn't comfortable around women sure as hell isn't gonna ever wanna touch one. He is unsure of the effect due to his insecurity of himself. Be a man and don't be afraid of the female. Don't let them see you as a fearful little bıtch.

How about when taking a photo with a chick...or two? Don't just stand there like El Virgin de Sainto, and put your hand on the lower back, arm around her/them? Hellz to the yeah you take advantage of the opportunity and touch them like a man without any fear of the female.

Great post, NN.
 
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