"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Casually dating a BPD

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Blue Phoenix

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Yeah,

I know one (via mutal friends). She was dating a guy (a nice guy literally) and cheating the hell out of him. When he got tired of that, he dumped her. Until nowadays she chases him, calls him and begs to go back (still seeing other guys). It really doesn´t make sense at all. It seems it´s all about control, she said she plans to marry him!! :crazy:

She jumped the motorcycle once when he tried to break up with her.
She jumped out of the apt once.
The list goes on.

What is tricky is how they play with appearances. If you don´t pay enough attention you can be easily fooled by their words (even their actions). Normally they had a horrible mother at home...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And if you are going to "toy" with this crazy b for a bit, forget all the "validation" and other techniques for dealing with an LTR or married BPD broad.

Instead, continuously F with her by dating other hot chicks and ignoring her whenever possible, only occasionally being nice.

But remember. This is for your amusement only. Don't be one of the million's of dudes who thought they could somehow tame this mental illness, even though NO one else ever could. In other words, get over yourself. And only play to F with her. Her whole goal is to get you to fall in love so she can then unleash her true and massive craziness and mind fk on you.
 
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Brandonc662 said:
So what is the problem with having fun until the honeymoon period is over? Why not have fun and have great sex until unwanted behaviors arise and using as that as your reason to bounce?
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Because in her mind she is doing nothing wrong and you are a horrible person for leaving her for no reason which in her mind justifies treating you horribly to the point she wouldn't have any problem if you committed suicide due to her actions because remember you are the bad guy that started all this and she is just giving it back as much as you gave to her.

Remember in their mind its always someone else that wrongs them. They cant ever take responsibility for their actions.
 
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