"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Casual convo at work

caribstars

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I started working at mc donalds and theres lots of chicks there but i can never get a conversation going. Its always "Hi, how are you?" - "Im good. How are you?"- "Im good. Thank you." or "hey whats up?" - "not much". And thats pretty much it. The first we talk, i asked about their high school and stuff. Well what else can we talk about? Im not trying to date them or anything. I especially feel very embarrased during breaks where me and some girl just sit there eating and no one says a word.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tx_xp

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Convo at work is no different than anywhere else, you need to be able to speak man!
 

chlywly

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So be the man and just TALK to them, you have to keep it going if its hard to start up, think of stuff to ask, about their life, what they want to do, where they want to go, what they have done.

Basicly just be a little flirty, loosen them up :)
 

Chewy Bagel

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Ask them questions about themselves and their interests to get the ball rolling. Also, you can talk about what you did that weekend, ask them what they did over the weekend, movies, clothes, music or just about anything else. Also, understand that not everyone is friendly and outgoing. If someone is not warming up to you, then just be cordial and stop trying to buddy up to them.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ask them something about themselves that need an explanation. Ask them what was the last BAD movie they had seen. How about what they think about reality shows or something where they need to explain. Listen carefully and they will give you tons of things where you can interject your opinion.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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