"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A well respected DJ sent me a PM asking me HOW I read Black Italian so well.

He said.............

hey,

just curious. you of most members, from the very start said you knew Black_Italian was a fake. I wasn't so sure to begin with, but of course we all know now.

I was just wondering how you knew?



The art of reading people is a delicate situaion. One has to be careful to consider all the facts before making a claim.

The Black Italian incident is a lesson that can be applied to offline as well.

There are many uncouth indivduals in this world who try to portray something that they are not. Even todays top PUA's can't be trusted.

So who do you trust?

Who can you turn to when it seems like everyone around you is trying to pull you away from your goals?

Women? Ha.

Friends? Not likely.

God? "If our fathers were our model for god and they left us what does that say about God" - Fight Club

Family? They've got their own problems to deal with.

At the end of the day you must take responsibility and remain accountable for your actions.

Bill Russell was one of the best basketball players ever but a horrible free throw shooter. He could do everything on the court but like most big men he couldn't shoot the freebies. So It was the 7th and final game of the NBA finals with the Lakers and time was running out. The Lakers were down by 1 point and Boston had the ball. The only way that the Lakers could get the ball back was to foul Boston and put them on the line to shoot free throws.

So who do they foul? Bill Russell. It made sense. He was the worst freethrow shooter on the team. If he misses both the Lakers can win. If he makes both the game would be out of reach since there was no three point line back then.

Now Russell has the ball but he was such a great player that he was accountable for his actions. Responsible to the highest level. He steps to the line and sinks both.

How did he do it?

Accountability. He knew that win or lose that the Championship was riding on his shoulders. He knew that no matter what happened the fate of his team was in his hands.

That is the ONLY way YOU will approach life from now on. NO EXCUSES. No blame. IT is you and only you that decides your fate.

Being a Don Juan is like being an athlete. You must train and practice for gameday. Except gameday isn't in front of thousands of screaming fans. Gameday is you having complete control of your interactions with Women.

Take another famous athlete - The recently retired football legend JERRY RICE. This man trained like an animal. He had talent but what set him apart was his tremendous work ethic.

There is an old quote that I love and it goes "The most talented is the man who works the hardest"

Did you know RICE didn't take a vacation for his first 10 years in the league.

He had already established himself has the best receiver in the game but REFUSED to let anyone work harder then him.

I'll leave you with a thought. If you get nothing out of this post at least take this into consideration.

When you are practicing your craft. When you are training outside in the cold. Ask yourself? Is any of my competition out here RIGHT NOW doing this? More than likely NO. To be GREAT you have to do the things that the average people won't. If that means sarging til' your mind is numb. So be it. If that means training your body at 4 in the morning, so be it. Do what others won't today so you can be great tomorrow.

A real man will stare in the face of adversity and tell it to FUKK off. Silence your doubters. Remain true to yourself and be accountable for your actions.

You are the future.

You are the anti- Black Italian.

Everyone reading this has the ability to be the GREATEST DJ IN THE WORLD.

The question is - Will you dedicate yourself to do it. Can you dare to be great? Can you bury all the pre-conceived notions and take control of your own destiny?

The only thing stopping you is you.

Now what the fukk are you waiting for? Get out there and rewrite your history.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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test :D

Casino... Tell me.... am I a fake?:D come on... after nearly 2000 posts u should be able to tell if what i say is bull****...

... This last week-end i brought a girl home who was one of the models at the party I as at, and yesterday she came over as well and we had some "fun" *grin* ...

... Casino, did i just lie?:woo:

:D


Laterz...
 

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Someone pays this guy a compliment and he has such an ego boost that he thinks hes the coolest dj ever :D

O man I must be the new coolest dj here cause I just read how your mind is working. Stay tuned next week for S0LIDS guru advise :)
 

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Wanna know how I knew he was a fake?


Most of his advice was utter BS...:rolleyes: It don't take no special skill to pick up on that. I confronted him once or twice on it, a while back but he never felt like arguing so I just dropped it. I'm not into ripping up some dude I don't know, over the net..... I just ignored his posts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Actually I'm going to go all in and say Casino is blackitalian under a new account. it would be the perfect way for us never to expect it. Dude if your bored get some hobbies.
 

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Re: test :D

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Casino... Tell me.... am I a fake?:D come on... after nearly 2000 posts u should be able to tell if what i say is bull****...

... This last week-end i brought a girl home who was one of the models at the party I as at, and yesterday she came over as well and we had some "fun" *grin* ...

... Casino, did i just lie?:woo:

:D


Laterz...
Well, considering you have almost 2000 posts within a year, you're a pretty busy poster.......So who knows?


Luckily the advice you dish out is solid, so It's hard to doubt it. :cool:

B-I was kinda exposed as a fake, but how many others are there on here? We can't keep ripping on him, because I'm SURE he's not the only one. (and I'm not defending him in any way shape or form)
The problem with the phonies is that they come on here and give advice to the new guys as if they know what they're talking about..... but it's usually not the best advice, and this in turn spawns new members to learn from these "mediocre at best" keyboard jockeys.... eventually dumbing down the forums and filling it with half-assed don wannabes who turn around and give out more poor advice to the new members.... it's a vicious circle and I think those of us who have been here since the early days have seen this degredation occur.

Just to clarify, I've been here since early 2001, under a different name.
 

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Simple solution, correct the people giving bad advice with your 'better' advice.

I know I'm far from perfect, but I still give advice sometimes based on what I would do, mostly from reading places like this. And if my advice gets corrected, great! I learn too. Hopefully I'm not too far off the mark in a lot of cases though... lol
 

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.............................................................................

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Well, considering you have almost 2000 posts within a year, you're a pretty busy poster.......So who knows?


Luckily the advice you dish out is solid, so It's hard to doubt it. :cool:

thanx... and I can assure you, I have earned the right to give every word of advice I have given:D
B-I was kinda exposed as a fake, but how many others are there on here? We can't keep ripping on him, because I'm SURE he's not the only one. (and I'm not defending him in any way shape or form)
The problem with the phonies is that they come on here and give advice to the new guys as if they know what they're talking about..... but it's usually not the best advice, and this in turn spawns new members to learn from these "mediocre at best" keyboard jockeys.... eventually dumbing down the forums and filling it with half-assed don wannabes who turn around and give out more poor advice to the new members.... it's a vicious circle and I think those of us who have been here since the early days have seen this degredation occur.
You are 100% right. But we will never really be able to put a stop to the "wannabe" dj's because its just how us humans work, and there will always be those who wanna be part of the "kewl crowd", and they will do anything to be respected, even if its on a internet forum. Its really sad that some people do this, but they do it, and we need to just find an alternative way to correct this, and the best thing to do, is just see everyone here on these forums as equal, we are all human right? we all make mistakes right? we all have questions right? we all can also have different opinions and/or experiences with women that may differ, right? So if someone says something that is not completely true, then correct them and hope that they will learn and better themselves further.

Anyways... I'm off to a study group, got exams at the moment, but i hope that some of you guys take what I said to heart;)
Just to clarify, I've been here since early 2001, under a different name. [/B]
What was your previous screen name? (I’m asking out of curiosity, not because I don’t believe you or anything like that.):p


Laterz...
 

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What was your previous screen name? (I’m asking out of curiosity, not because I don’t believe you or anything like that.)
I was The Big Bad Wolf and I think I had another one before that... it's been so long i can't really remember.


The Bad Ass Canadian sums up my personality quite nicely, though. :D

Anyways, I do try and correct bad advice but it is a tricky thing to do, because everyone's mileage will vary.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Casino
I didn't really get how that was about reading people, but great read nonetheless. I mean, I guess what you're saying is you can tell someone is a fake if they are spending so much time here that they could not possibly be out in the real world improving themselves.

I also agree that some advice is clearly trash...like he used to always tell guys, don't worry about if a girl has a bf...that's just an obstacle. It doesn't work so easily in the real world, and you can't just plow through a relationship that easily. He also told people that true DJs never wear shorts :rolleyes:

I admit that personally, I spend a bit too much time here too. In general, I think I spend a bit too much time on the computer to be honest...that's a bad habit that I need to break. Time that I should be using to work on myself even more

...good points, thanks.
 

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LOL Casino

*starts singing*

did you ever know that you're my herooooooo.......

you're everything i would like to beeeeeeeeeee......

with you i can fly higher than an eagle..........

cause you are the wind beneath my wings.........

:D
 

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The whole Black Italian incident has become a sign of the tide changing around here......I believe this site was created to SUPPORT people who realize they have flaws in themselves and actively are trying to improve......but people like GGTW/007 try to raise the bar by telling people to get out there and sarge w/ pics, so when some people want to be accepted in the community they feel they have to do likewise. I mean just read some of the threads from 2-5 years ago.....there's barely any flaming from the members or name calling, it's all "Great Job X" or "Next time try this..." How many pics did Fingers post? Pook? I always hear people say things now like, "All the true dj's have left cus you guys act like a bunch of pussies" Nooooo, all the dj's just have there game down and have moved on to the next stage of their lives, but they come back from time to time.....

P.S - I also spend too much time here, but next week i'm taking 16 credits and working 30 hours a week so I'll be off this crutch for a little while.
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
P.S - I also spend too much time here, but next week i'm taking 16 credits and working 30 hours a week so I'll be off this crutch for a little while.
Yeah... Next year I'm also not gonna be around that much, gonna get a job AND study at the same time.... oh well :rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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